I'm a tomboy and I just seem to get along or have more in common with guys than most girls. Not that I don't like having girl friends too, don't get me wrong.
I've always been into sports and motorized sports growing up and I rarely ever met girls that were into that stuff too. (I never went to school either though, so making friends was hard to come by living in the country.)
I just am so depressed with having to break their hearts by telling them I don't feel the same. (This has become so hard that I mostly stick to myself now and don't even try to make friends anymore. I'm a total hermit now.)
I'm not the type of person who dates someone for the sake of dating. I'm into long term only. So, I don't want to just go out with them because they like me. It would feel so unfair to them.
I even tell them up front that I just want to be friends.
Is it just not possible to be just friends with a male friend?