It sounds like you could be leading them on. communicate from the start & make sure they under that youβre not interested in a relationship with anyone at the moment
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Maybe you didn't read the whole post, because clear communication was exactly what I do to avoid that.
I feel you. I have always had MANY female friends even when I had girlfriends. But I never let my girl meet the ones that liked me. It's funny how some people think guys and girls can't just be friends... females friends are fun because sometimes y'all would end up being friends with benefits. That is huge plus.
Most men are always going to want more than just simple friendships especially if they have interacted with you or a similar girl with lots of fun hobbies like you. A lot of men can't go around trying to hide it forever. Some are always going to want to love you and feel reciprocated.
@Cjbruser Thank you for sharing your opinion. I can understand that in general, for sure. It just seems to happen so often that it's gotten almost depressing. I thought maybe there's some clear advice I was missing.
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When you find the answer tell me because, I have the same problem too. Like chill bruh.
Okay lol! π
πthese men need to chill lmao
Sure because I've been best friends with two guys since middle school and now all of us are in our last year of high school
You'll probably find out in your 30's that they were deeply in love with you this whole time. π
But, if I'm wrong, that's great! Enjoy it!
It sounds like you could be leading them on. communicate from the start & make sure they under that youβre not interested in a relationship with anyone at the moment
Maybe you didn't read the whole post, because clear communication was exactly what I do to avoid that.
Lust isn't love. All girls are fallin in lust with jus by looking at
why would you want to be "just friends" with a guy, if you're straight
Because I don't just sleep with every guy that lays eyes on me. π
Yes, this is possible.
Thanks for your input! π
Either change society or become ugly. Female attention so rare most guys will fall for anyone who comes their way
I had a female BFF, when I had a girlfriend.
I feel you. I have always had MANY female friends even when I had girlfriends. But I never let my girl meet the ones that liked me. It's funny how some people think guys and girls can't just be friends... females friends are fun because sometimes y'all would end up being friends with benefits. That is huge plus.
Find guys who loves other girls.
That's a good idea, but not always easy to find. π π
don't be awesome
Haha I'm not! π
you are
Well, thank you. π
you got wheels... that's always interesting
π It sounds like you're referring to my body having wheels.
well... that would be cool as well
In some situations haha. I've seen bodysuits with wheels/skis and they were fricken so cool!
@2Wheels an in the case of your post...
have you even fallen for someone?
and if yes, was he your friend first? an acquaintance? someone that asked you out to date, right away?
Be friends with guys that wonβt do that
Omg! Genious! Why have I never thought about this before? π
You can't
Okay.
you can't
I've noticed. π π
Most men are always going to want more than just simple friendships especially if they have interacted with you or a similar girl with lots of fun hobbies like you.
A lot of men can't go around trying to hide it forever. Some are always going to want to love you and feel reciprocated.
@Cjbruser Thank you for sharing your opinion. I can understand that in general, for sure. It just seems to happen so often that it's gotten almost depressing. I thought maybe there's some clear advice I was missing.
Impossible
Okay then.
You're too pretty for that π
Sorry no friends for you just boy friends π
You haven't seen me! π
If I see you I fall for you π so let's just be friends
I have fallen couple if times and I bet you can top that list