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I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’ve been on bumble for about two months. While I get matches, guys stop replying to messages early on or the convo just dies out naturally. (F 27), I’ve just never gotten dates easy like other women I know. I’ve been told I’m picky but everyone should be selective to some degree. I really do want companionship but I have very low patience/tolerance if a guy acts like a dick and really don’t want to settle. I feel like I could have dated but all the guys would feel mediocre. I just can’t find what I really want it’s mind boggling. I wonder if I really want a relationship, considering I don’t have desire to have sex. I haven’t had sex in three years and don’t care if I never have it again. When I get messages on dating apps and convos seem to go well early on, I get discouraged as soon as the conversation fades. I feel forced then to try matching with more guys. And knowing that being with someone long term means eventually having to live with them and get more comfortable/do gross things in front of each other also turns me off… I go through periods where I want a relationship then I get turned off or bored, I get annoyed when I don’t get as much attention. I know a lot of it is anxiety but that’s only part of it, a lot of people are with anxiety have an easier time dating.

Tl;DR: Genuine asexual or making up excuses for being chronically single?

I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’ve been on bumble for about two weeks. While I get matches, guys stop replying to messages early on or the convo just dies out naturally. (F 27), I’ve just never gotten dates easy like other women I know. I’ve been told I’m picky but everyone should be selective to some degree. I wonder if I really want a relationship, considering I don’t really have desire to have sex. I haven’t had sex in three years and don’t care if I never have it again. When I get messages on dating apps and convos seem to go well early on, I get discouraged as soon as the conversation fades. I feel forced then to try matching with more guys. And knowing that being with someone long term means eventually having to live with them and get more comfortable/do gross things in front of each other also turns me off… I go through periods where I want a relationship then I get turned off or bored, I get annoyed when I don’t get as much attention

I’ve been on and off the dating apps for years. I’ve been on bumble for about two weeks. While I get matches, guys stop replying to messages early on or the convo just dies out naturally. (F 27), I’ve just never gotten dates easy like other women I know. I’ve been told I’m picky but everyone should be selective to some degree. I wonder if I really want a relationship, considering I don’t really have desire to have sex. I haven’t had sex in three years and don’t care if I never have it again. When I get messages on dating apps and convos seem to go well early on, I get discouraged as soon as the conversation fades. I feel forced then to try matching with more guys. And knowing that being with someone long term means eventually having to live with them and get more comfortable/do gross things in front of each other also turns me off… I go through periods where I want a relationship then I get turned off or bored, I get annoyed when I don’t get as much attention

Last week was the 2nd time my friend had this happened. They've been married for 9 years, have fraternal twins (a 7 year-old boy and girl) and are having issues.

Her husband is frustrated in only having sex 3-5 times in a month. It has declined since last year. He forced himself on her for the 2nd time and claims that since he's her husband and he had the patience to wait till marriage when he met her... he can now have sex whenever he wants to. She told him to stop and was crying and he said ''no, I'm your husband''.

Even if you're married isn't that still rape?