What's going on here, why do we have this love hate type of thing going on?

Erica686
So long story, very short. My use to be friends with benefits of 7 years and 8 years knowing each other. We hate this love hate type of relationship. Like him alone he has his own issues and all. But it's like every since we still not having sex with each other and I told him about my fake boyfriend. Things took a turn, but I definitely noticed when we stopped being intimate with each other. We stopped having sex back in July. But even at that time we were on good terms. Then it's like communication just slowly started to drift Weeks Later. And now we just don't have communicate with each other like that at all. I mean he tried to reach out to me like a month ago I think one or two months ago but I didn't budge. So he I was feeling some type of way about that. Plus I think he was in a situationship with someone I'm dealing with that on the side. Then this past week I sent him this video cuz he just kept posting things that was a bit sad. And he was also posting quote. So this past week I decided to send him a funny video. He didn't really say much about it but he responded hours later with a LOL and saved the video. But since then, there still was no communication. But also when he's in the present moment with my energy I get all this Moody negative energy around him. And little things I'll say or if I don't read his messages or whatever or look at his snaps. He feel some type of way about it or if I go MIA. That's when he starts to get curious and starts looking for me. So typically when I start to pull back from him that's when he wants to start the pull in towards me. So I most recently posted something on my snap yesterday night. And it was directed towards him. The basically it said lately I've been noticing who's been really rocking with me and not and all I just want to say make sure you keep that same energy. Continue to re updates the question below.
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This was a quote off of Twitter and I added my own little saying and said keep the energy all year round. That was like 19 hours ago. Then he posted something 15 hours ago off Facebook. And it said I don't want to be around anything that's not for me other than motivation money and real love. So he posted a few of those little quotes. But I'm just trying to figure out what is this energy that's going on between us why do we have all this love and hate towards each other. ?
What's going on here, why do we have this love hate type of thing going on?
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