Why do so many people have hate in their heart? And is there anything that can help them?

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Guy13 · Accepted Answer

Theoretically and practicality man demonstrates an amazing propensity to be and to do Hate. That being said, Hate is a subjective term in need of a situational definition. Preferences to one is hate to another. Disagreement amongst the immature, what I think is right and what you think is right, and Inclusion of everything or everybody verse Exclusion can be interpreted as love or hate.

I am not sure what to do with this except to say this is nothing new in our world. Looking back through time man has creatively committed hateful acts. The only reasonable conclusion is that man, as well as all things in this world, are fallen, depraved, and sinful. That we are indeed unable to do good or improve upon our own no matter our experiences, enlightenment, and/or general education. That the good I want to do, I do not while that evil which I do not want or know not to do, I do.

There is no need to give a historical account except for pointing out global examples such as WW1, WW2, and most recent Ukraine. And, an individual and Self driven example such as a chosen killing of an independent life and being, residing within a living being. And the host Being or Adult is to care and defend thet Baby which can not defend itself.

Again, both theoretically and practical all men/women have the propensity To Be Hate and To Do Hateful. The examples are exponential in number.

xJeremyx · Accepted Answer

Hatred can be characterised by the unwillingness to forgive.

This unwillingness to forgive stems from the mindset that "I have been wronged, I will not forgive that person until he/she changes and makes it up to me". When a person harbours unforgiveness, he/she is hanging on to the pain caused by the actions of the offending person. And hanging on to those negative emotions is torment, to say the least. So in a way, forgiving is the way to let go of the past and move on, preserving your mental health. But people refuse to forgive, because they feel that they are at a loss if they forgive their transgressors.

People who hate others based on their own skewed preference (eg. by gender, race, etc) often either had an upbringing that reinforced hatred for these groups of people, or have experienced traumatic events involving people from these groups. And these people refuse or find it difficult to maintain an open mind that their mindset is not correct, or that actions by a few people belonging to a certain group should not define that whole group. That is why it is so important to be open-minded so we can always improve our perceptions and mindsets to be more accepting of other groups of people, instead of hating them.

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

I think some people actually thrive in being hateful to others. They don't want to change and see no reason to change. I mean, you can't be a full-on democrat without the hate they have for half of America 🇺🇸 and probably more than half.
This is the first time in my lifetime where I've actually seen haters in action, and they are always at the ready to tell their hateful words on anyone they see fit.
Their body, their choice - except after they pass away, it will be God's choice. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Daniela1982 · Accepted Answer

Because Satan hates man and wants to destroy us. And men follow Satan, including all his hate, lust, and evil. All you have to do is look around you and see how the world is crumbling around you and how men are killing each other with increasing frequency. In the end most of life on Earth would have been destroyed - Matthew 24:22 "Unless those days had been cut short, no flesh would have been saved; but for the sake of the elect those days will be cut short."

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

A lot of people are sadistic. Even generally good people sometimes sadistic moments. They’re all too happy to manipulate, take advantage of and hurt other people. If you’re born into the wrong set of circumstances and you encounter more of these people than those who practice empathy and caring, the survival mechanisms you develop will appear to the ignorant to be “hateful”. It’s a position of privilege to assume so much without really getting to know someone else’s experience, let alone experiencing it for yourself. Of course there are ways to recondition the human mind, but even a cursory examination of the state of mental health awareness and treatment in the US makes clear that we don’t give a shit about people with mental disorders. If you study how we’ve changed in the past seven or eight decades, it also becomes clear that we never will. We used to actually treat people. Now we just throw them in prison. Meanwhile, the number of prescription drugs available for mental disease and defect has grown significantly and the number of prescriptions has increased exponentially in that same time. We traded meaningful treatment for incarceration and forced medication. And at present, it really feels like nobody gives a shit.

MichaelEspinoza · Answer

Well here's my opinion on this , the reason people have a lot of hate in they're heart is really not finding the fulfillment in Life - which is Jesus 💖👑. Well some people find happiness in other things but it can never take away The anger in your heart - only Jesus can. For some people they have Anger cause someone did them wrong , others just can't find anything to help get rid of the Anger unless turn they're life to Jesus Then if you replace your Anger with you will have peace that passes all understanding.

mobiusforniner · Answer

I dont know. For some people, hate is a hobby. An obsession. I have relatives on both sides who live to hate. They find purpose in it. Gives their life meaning.

I notice that an unwillingness to change is a common shared perspective. They possess an irrational fear of the unknown. they desperately look for things to confirm their bias, in media and in their social circles. They promote the "us versus them" rhetoric and enjoy pitting one against the other rather than collectively finding ways to improve for the betterment of all. They often deal on absolute, you are either right or wrong. Left or right. Republican or democrat, etc

This closed mindedness creates a sense of belonging and brotherhood. They feel they are the only ones who "understand" and will put themselves on a moral quest to do what they feel is right, no matter the cost. And in extreme cases, that penultimate objective includes the cost of life.

Ryfyle · Answer

Fuck No. Hate is Life!  Hate is the means of which history is written! Hate makes every loss more bitter, sweetens every victory. Love Hate, Consume Hate, and Live to Hate one more glorious day!

Lionman95 · Answer

I think that hate is built up by trauma or inferiority that haven´t been solved or cared for. People that hate others have been hurt on a deeper level at some point in their life so when ever they are attacked they spit out their hate.
The biggest help is therefore to solve that issue or help them self confidence for themselves. So that they can go through scenarios of attacks but have other methods to handle the situation.

Anonymous · Answer

They're lost souls. It's for many possible reasons. I wasn't a hateful person. But I was an angry person till I found my faith. I'm not trying to sell anyone on anything. But I can tell you my faith brought peace to my life. And I would recommend talking to God and praying to him. He can change your life if you let him. And don't feel bad if you think it's hokum to begin with. I felt the same way originally.

genericname85 · Answer

well hate is always protection from harm. and that protection from harm doesn't come from nothing. it comes from being previously harmed. you can't undo what happened in the past. getting rid of hate is a personal endeavor that the person must be willing to make in the first place.

Agape93 · Answer

When you treat people like trash, like they're a monster, don't be surprised if they become a monster. Hate begets hate.

dustybiker · Answer

Hate comes from hurt. It’s hard to put aside hurt.

Anonymous · Answer

They hate themselves/ feel inadequate. They take that frustration out on others. There’s nothing more toxic than a person who feels like they have lost control of their own body and life.

Luopio27 · Answer

The world is unfair, beyond measure. Pesce cannot exist in an unfair world, because unfairness creates hopelessness than will turn to hate.  Hate is the product of all wrongs humans do to one another.

BJP21 · Answer

It would depend on how many times they have been hurt by whatever it is they hate on.

normalice · Answer

There is a group called lifeafterhate that could be helpful if it got orders of magnitude more funding.

TheVigilantOne · Answer

The reason why some not all people are hateful could be due to years of abuse, being abused everyday can make you turn inwards and make you hate people.

Tracker1958 · Answer

People entitlement, thinking the world owe you something you are to lazy to work for, like expecting the taxpayers to pay off the college debts and half of America didn't go to college and will get nothing from it.

BCRanger10 · Answer

Because it gives them purpose.

jimmy2 · Answer

I believe mostly they brought up like that. We are the product of our environment

Teriyaki70 · Answer

Jesus 🙏 🤲 🕍 🕌 ⛪️

NathanDavis · Answer

because they hate themselves

Anonymous · Answer

Help yourself first man. You seem have severe issues with narcissism

msc545 · Answer

Capitalism.

cth96190 · Answer

I hate those who would destroy that which I love.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't post annoying comments on Gag

sheikalana · Answer

Jealously.

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