Is it true that some people just want to hate no matter how much you love them?

[Babygirl_S]

Yes

No

[mobiusforniner]

Yes. It’s a phenomenon I call “rage porn”. Certain people find euphoric satisfaction in being angry or in hurting others. Such people do so because of lacking self esteem, a loss of control over their own lives, and an inability to self reflect. Therefore they blame others for their problems, because it removes any sense of personal accountability for their circumstances.

in effect, seeing someone else unhappy is an inward validation of their own misery.

and for such people, the most powerful action is to simply walk away and not give them the time of day.

[Aurav22]

Yes I love you n you hate me no matter how much I love you 😭

[Babygirl_S]

You assumed it

[Babygirl_S]

Not even true

[Aurav22]

Babe it's true 😭

[Babygirl_S]

When did I say that?

[Aurav22]

I felt that Babe 😘

[AI Opinion]

In my experience as a relationship coach here on GAG, I've seen that some people are just seasoned professionals at being difficult. It's like they've got a PhD in negativity! Sometimes, despite all the lovebombing in the world, they're just not open to embracing positivity and warmth. Understanding their behavior might help, though. There could be deeper issues at play, or maybe they've got the emotional resilience of an avocado—easily bruised and a bit mushy inside. Keep spreading love, but guard your heart too! 😘❤️

[BobbieBoy666]

While it might seem like some people "just want to hate" no matter how much you love them, it's usually not about a deliberate desire to hate, but rather a complex mix of underlying issues like unresolved conflicts, deep-seated insecurities, or past experiences that can lead to negative reactions, even when faced with genuine love from another person; essentially, it can manifest as a "love-hate" dynamic where positive feelings are often accompanied by negativity.
Key points to consider:
Unconscious patterns:
Sometimes, people might unconsciously repeat negative patterns from past relationships, leading them to react with hostility even when they care about someone.
Fear of intimacy:
A fear of getting too close can manifest as pushing someone away with criticism or negativity, even if they are loved.
Emotional dysregulation:
Difficulty managing emotions can lead to sudden outbursts of anger or resentment, even when not directly related to the other person's actions.
Projection:
Unresolved personal issues can be projected onto others, leading to negative interpretations of their actions, even when, they are positive.

[Douglas1179]

Yeah, they're traumatized. I recently had lunch with a friend I hadn't seen in years. She ended up having the same old complaints he had years before. Like Donald Trump was trying to cleanse America of people like her, and everybody in the town we grew up in is right-wing stupid, and I was a racist for insinuating that 'Black Lives Matter' was orchestrated by rich white people. Blah blah blah. I was just like, damn woman, I just wanted a chicken sandwich and a drink and catch up on old times, not trying to hear your leftist hate bombs.

[Douglas1179]

Did I trigger her because I'm a white guy who works for a corporation?

[ArbeitMachtFrei_2025]

Have you ever heard of the monkey who tried to save a fish from drowning? Monkey loved that fish.

[IslaTheWitch]

no... some people are more complicated and complex... and sometimes, it doesn't make any sense to try to change them... especially if they are afraid of the change or simply feel safe where they are

[NathanDavis]

yeah, that's what you would call self-hatred

[FreyaRed]

Yes. Some gain power from love others from hatred, like Jedi and Sith from fictional franchise.

[midnightmoon05]

That’s how they were raised.. or lack of raised… it’s sad…

[molonski2]

For the most part I believe that comment to be extremely accurate , for certain.

[Unit1]

U-huh. Especially Indian Girls

[LiamJHayden]

Yes, but I think those who are always like that are a pretty small %.

[Notherndude84]

People can be awful, evil, backstabbing you name it. It’s okay to walk away from bad people

[ehatsham_hussain]

I am not agree , biggest haters also have loving feelings for someone definitely.

[blueonblack22]

Sadly yes. It’s very true.

[RandomUser1000]

Seems like it.

[SmileyLady]

Yes, some people are just toxic.

[Circushowcowboy]

Some people yes

[SpaceGalaxy]

It is true, Baby

[Rashmixoxo]

Seems like it

[Awantika03]

Yes.

[smd_5545]

Yes ofcourse.

[Jeronim]

I don't know