I have a pretty good list.
I’ll start off with my mother. I hated my mother so much that I threw a weeklong party after she died. It wasn’t so I could bottle up my emotions with alcohol. I was just legitimately happy that I didn’t have to put up with her anymore.
My mother was schizophrenic and bipolar, along with a bunch of other things as well. I heard she was a better person at one point but my mom got cancer when I was a baby or maybe it was before I was a baby all I remember about the whole cancer and me being a baby is that I was told I wasn’t breast-fed specifically because my mother had breast cancer.
No, the cancer mixed with years of chemotherapy plus the mental illnesses plus a couple strokes screwed over her head so badly and she became incredibly abusive but because this all happened when I was a literal baby, I never really got to know my mother has anyone other than an abusive witch who literally enjoyed traumatizing her own son, who wasn’t even 10 years old. She kept behaving like this until I was about 15 or 16 I think then she started treating me… better? Not to say she treated me good I mean she was still sleep deprive me almost every day and then still send me to school and then get mad at me when I’m angry after being sleep deprived and then forced into school where I was still being sleep deprived because I couldn’t sleep in school and I couldn’t sleep at home. She would also eat all the actual food in the house and leave me with basically bread and mustard or crackers. Then to make it even worse, she never cooked and never taught me how to cook, which is sad because they later on found out I am actually a really talented cook and I’ve gotten high praise from a lot of people when it comes to my cooking. Overall, she was one of many people who abused me and made my life not worth living yet despite having been through things that would’ve killed just about anyone else I survived for no other reason then my body just doesn’t give up.
You know the saying, the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree? Well, my half-sister is just like that she was just as bad as my mom. She was abusive and emotionally manipulative and just like my mom would pull out the “blood card” to get away with whatever she wanted. Keep in mind. My mom was old enough to be my grandma and my sister was old enough to be my mom. Anyways, my sister was incredibly abusive and so was her husband to some extent and I couldn’t get away. My sister is alive unfortunately but she’s out of my life and based on her living situation from when I last spoke to her about two years ago I can make the observation that her life is going to be a living hell so I don’t really have appointment caring too much.
Next are my mother’s siblings. Yes, just like my mom my aunts are terrible human beings, who treated me like trash, one of my aunts, even let her son do things like beat me up or throw sand into my eyes. This is a common occurrence on my mom side of the family despite the fact that they like to preach about how family is super important, they all need to look out for each other.
Next is the people who were in charge of the school system in the small town that I grew up in when I was young before I moved to where I am now. I was abused by my peers frequently actually all the time and it got really bad one time in grade school a student pulled a knife out on me. It was just a pocket knife but I was a grade schooler and so that was scary back when I could be afraid of things and this was on the playground by the way with no adult supervision because the two adults who were supposed to keep an eye on the playground just sat there and talked to each other and paid absolutely no attention to the students even if the student pulls out a knife or plays with a dead rat. Actually in grade school, I had to take it upon myself to keep order on the playground because it was chaos and there were definitely bad kids there I was the grade school Batman.
lastly, is just about anyone who is pitied me. I have been through things and seeing things that I cannot discuss online without getting banned. I have seen hell and I mean it. There are things I can’t discuss because I’m not allowed to and then there’s things I can’t discuss because I’ll get to angry. Fact, is my ability to be afraid is gone now it’s been replaced with either anger or sadness but I don’t feel afraid anymore I can’t, and it’s almost impossible for me to cry. And the reason why I don’t like people having pity for me is because they don’t know what I’ve been through, and they probably will never understand it. I take pride in the suffering I went through because I had to see and do things as a child that most adults wouldn’t be able to handle and for me, it was just a part of every day life. The fact I came out alive and mostly not messed up is impressive and so every scar every pain that I feel every bad memory every nightmare is a badge of honor in my eyes and in a way is the only evidence I existed during those years because the people who seen it go down are halfway across the country or just never wanna talk about it.
Anyways, that’s SOME of the people that I hate, and a few of the reasons why. My list of people I hate is longer, and so is the list of reasons why I hate those people that I already listed.
I hope you all have a wonderful day. I’m a bit hungry and I’ve got no food so I’m probably gonna take a nap.
My father, unfortunately. No one else that I know personally. He has a personality disorder that is extremely difficult to deal with. He's a classic narcissist, in that he believes he is the best, no one else is worth a damn, he has to be in control of you, has to control everything, and needs everyone's admiration at all times.
There is no burying the hatchet with him, because it all just goes in cycle where he'll mentally and emotionally abuse you until eventually you loose it, and lash out at him, so that he can play the victim. He wants you to come crawling back, and make up, then it all just starts over again. I doesn't matter if he promises he will change, or do better, he lies, and he never does change. "I don't have to keep ANY promises", as he has told me before.
It's just miserable to be around him, and there is no fixing him. He's broken for life, and I don't want to be a pawn in his twisted little world of narcissism. When you've taken a lifetime of shit from the same person, it's hard not hate.
I don't hate anyone here. I'm sour rose of course so I will get hate but I don't return it. Why? Because looks what happens when a white person hates a black person and vice versa. Constant cycle of hatred, violence and death. All because someone wants to hate someone for little to no reason. I don't hate pedophiles either. Or anyone who do unspeakable things. Just because they've done a bad thing, doesn't deserve true hatred that will eat you alive. Heh fun quote "Hate is like drinking poison and hoping the other person will die."
I live by that mostly :)
Yup. A former manager of mine. To make a long story short, she made our lives hell at work. I was on a mission to get her fired. I wrote letters to the higher ups and everything. Of course, my complaints were ignored. As time passed, though, I started feeling sorry for her. I realized that that job was her life and she was stressed and overwhelmed. I actually started getting along with her and (after I left that job) became friends with her on Facebook. Sadly, she’s dead now. 😔
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u There are a few people who I dislike and I do not want them to have any role in my life, so I do verything I can to exclude them from my life. But if I HATE them, they are occupying a place in my heart. . . and they don't deserve that.
I don’t hate. I just pretend they’re dead or never exist. It’s too much work. Out of mind, out of drama.
I absolutely hate the guy who raped me when I was 14 and then tried to kill me.
Two people. One, because he truly wishes me dead. And Two, because she gave up.
I prefer the word "loathe", meaning intense dislike or disgust. There are many, MANY detestable, loathsome people out there, from the ass hats in Congress (particularly Republicans), to judges, CEO's, liars on the "news", ad nauseum.
What did they do? The worst of them are child molesters and slave traffickers, and yes, that particularly includes the Clergy. The rest are corrupt, liars, and traitors to the idea of freedom. All of them care about no one and nothing but themselves (including their own planetary environment), while they worship money. They want you uneducated and ignorant and actively work to keep you that way. The list of bad traits is long.
The worst part is, they do it all while self-righteously invoking the name of God, and usually the name of Christ. If you're a radical Muslim, you'll invoke the name of your prophet and Allah. It doesn't matter which religion you choose.
You can quote me on this: " What the Taliban do with guns, Neo-Fascist false Christians are doing with legislation in the USA". This is not going to end well.
I have a few, although hate is a strong word.
It's only those who are assholes to me for no reason, like I can think of two people who I've never talked to before or done anything to who get all moody as soon as they see me. There's a third one who I've talked to a few times and been nothing but nice to and they're still a moody asshole to me too.
Another person is someone I've known my whole life and they seem to have an agenda against me and love fucking me about and would rather stop talking to me than apologize when they blatantly crossed the line. They're always against me too, like if someone picks a fight with me for no reason, they'll find a way to bash me and make excuses for them, as well as deny their own wrong doings, pretending like they don't remembers and even going as far as refuse to let me say my part.
The last person, if someone who keep poking their nose in my business and is similar to the person above, but I'm less close with anyway.
The last two I don't talk to anymore.
Hate is complicated. For many, it can be easy. Especially when someone does something horrible, or hurts you. I have hated people before, there are people I still feel like I hate.
That feeling of anger can be good, you can set standards, you can chose what you won't accept, you can develop belief on what is right or wrong and really have passion in it.
But hate also weighs, and when you are sitting there, or laying there and can't sleep, angry and hateful at whoever you're thinking about, it doesn't hurt them, and it doesn't change them. It just makes you more miserable.
I try not to hate, but I try not to allow myself or others to be victims either. It's a choice, to be in control, and live with a little bit of peace
It is really difficult for me to hate somebody. I generally let things go as it is harmful for me to keep them.
But there is this guy who is
He is just one of those very very few guys that I reall fucking hate to the core. Such people are never reliable.
I don't want a smart person. I want a person I can work with. Everything else is secondary.
Not now. There was a time I was very very very very angry with my ex husband when ended the marriage because that means sadness for our kids and a broken family… it took me over a year to wake up to work out on my own sanity for the sake of working with him to raise our kids separately. With the new mindset…. and my positive attitude…the kids are doing very well even thought we went through some rough times.
Yes, sadly. He is poison.
He has threatened to kill me and my girlfriend hundreds of times when we were stuck with him as a roommate. He stole from us. He tried to separate me and her, and her and her family. But the worst of all, is we found out he is a pedophile. We managed to get a restraining order, but it did not stop him from coming back and trying to kick the door in, nor has he been convicted of anything consequential despite evidence and eye witness testimony.
But thankfully he doesn't know where we live anymore. I should not hate him, but I do, and that makes me hate him even more.
Yeah I hate a bunch of people... Just like everyone... You meet some people who are super jealous of you or hate you for no reason... Some of them can even be family and ex close friends... I genuinely hate these people... If you made me choose between saving their life or saving a dog in the street.. Honestly I'd choose the dog...
No because my energy is too valueble to waste:). Hating someone is like drinking posion and hoping the other person dies-a wise man said
I hate a lot of people just by generalization, like I hate most girls on Instagram because they look like pathetic whores, mind you they could be great people but I hate them just how they look.. I also hate most guys just because they are guys and they hate me lol
Hate is something I would have to care. A burden that I do not want in my life. I may not like what you have done/are doing but I cannot hate. Now I have live only a short period of my life so far but I just don't want that burden.
I don't hate or dislike anyone, more so because I don't like to take the time or the energy to do so. There's been some people in my past that weren't very nice, but I figured it out, I just dump them from my life and never return.
I dont hate anyone but i CANNOT STAND a lot of people. I literally cannot stand next to those mfs without feeling a sense of anger, paranoia and discomfort
I don’t hate anyone but some people have had a really bad effect on me. I don’t hate them because hating is a waste of energy, and I feel like I’m responsible for allowing them to make me feel a certain type of way.
No, I don't hate anyone/people - why? My cousin, treats me bad
There is just a single person i have hate for, and that person, is someone i knew as my dad. He also felt like it was ok to rape me at 5 years old. He died in 2013. i never knew until about a year ago that he died. I still hate him. anyone else doesn't even come close.
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