Why do women hate short men so much?

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Whenever I ask questions regarding short men I always get hate comments about short men and how whiny they are and they just like to do rants. Even if I ask a simple and logical question without blaming anyone everyone still tries to do the same thing.

It's like there's no freedom of speech for short men without getting ridiculed by women. I try to question the society and it's cultural norms and get hate comments just because of it.

Like you can't even raise your voice against this but if a women talks about body positivity it's all fine.

Your biased love towards tall men and hatred towards short men show how much stuck up you are in cultural norms that you can't even talk or think logically.

And yes this is not a rant. This is a simple question. I'm not blaming anyone for preferences just asking a simple question.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Accepted Answer

We live in a world that’s unfair.

Women have to go out of their ways to look extra attractive, they pay lots of money and spend their effort on this.

You’ll be surprised to see when you go out with make up, nails done, super nice clothes and bla bla, so many guys hit on you,

when you go out without all these you might easily be invisible, thankfully I am not, but the difference is huge vs attention and treatment you get when you look super nice and the attention you get when you look just like yourself.

So, if you think it’s all flowers for girls, it’s not. We have also experienced unfairness of all of this.

But instead of complaining, let’s just accept, world is an unfair place, extremely unfair place.

I know that, I broke my nose in my teens and went from like 08/10- 09/10 to 6/10. I’ve seen how people treat you when you look really beautiful, as if you are some fricking royalty. That’s just human nature.

Some girls might like short guys, some might like tall, but saying the fault is in girls is wrong because it’s just human nature and you are human as well, making human mistakes, being shallow sometimes.

Tall men are attractive for most girls because they feel protected with them.

My brother is about 179 cm. He’s not that tall. However he’s got looks and charms. So he has always dated tons of attractive women and he was such a heart breaker when he was younger.

If you think one feature of yours doesn’t add to your attractiveness, try to balance it with other features, take care of yourself, workout, work hard to be successful, be outgoing, friendly and bold. There are things more important than just height. You should learn to improve yourself so that girls will be attracted to you whether you are 120 cm or 190 cm.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I literally think it's socialization and not so much biology. I'm latina and many guys in my birth country are short. The average height is shorter than many countries. Since this is the case, I am very much attracted to men my height and not much taller. I am 4'11. I happily dated a Latino who's 5'2. I'd date a man shorter than me but there aren't many who are. Yes men are usually already taller than women so maybe we do like our partner to be taller. But the freaky picky "must be significantly taller than me" is strange to me. The 6 foot standard is strange to me too. Now it is shown that men prefer shorter women over tall ones. Tall women face some judgment, and many men won't date a woman who is taller than him. But I think more short men are willing to date tall women, than tall women are willing to date shorter men. I don't think short men should get so much hate it's so weird. No one chooses their height.

TommyWiseau69 · Accepted Answer

Women have always preferred bigger men ever since our species existed. Its biological and evolutionary, there's nothing that can change that. Other species of animals such as lions the female lion always chooses the strongest and biggest male lion to partner up with because they exhibit the best male qualities amongst the other male lions. Our species is similar. Women choose bigger and tall men because they exhibit more masculine traits than other guys, thats if they do such as having bigger muscles and bodies. Makes them feel safe and protected. And the physical appeal of a big tall guy is just attractive to women, you can't really change their minds. Men are also attracted to women with bigger boobs and ass and having a curvy body.

Most of us can't help that feeling either. As a short guy i've already accepted I'm not the "ideal" type. It doesn't really bother me because attraction is something you can't control. If girls like tall guys there's others that don't. If every woman liked tall guys to the point they wouldn't go for other guys, our world population would be incredibly low and many people literally wouldn't even exist. The attraction itself is legit, but its not as overhyped as you might think. A lot of short guys in Hollywood are with smoking hot girls. there's always at least one super attractive girl that won't mind short guys, you just gotta find her.

MCheetah · Accepted Answer

Because many women feel like men owe them physical (and financial) protection and that a short man is too weak to be worthy of existence. Not that I agree with any of this or not short myself.

If you're not at least 6'/183 cm tall barefoot in the evening, you're undateable to most modern women. It's all short/unacceptable below 6'.

https://imgur.com/a/8TJan

Anonymous · Answer

It's mind blowing to me that it's actually a "deal breaker" for many of them. But some have this (false) idea that a tall guy has "better genes", which isn't true. They are "better" in that there's a better chance of your child also being tall, but that's it. But try telling some women this! (even though it's proven science). But other reasons I think, is they FEEL safer, thinking that he can somehow "protect" her better, even though height has NOTHING to do with it, but again, all around "feelings" for them, not logic lol.

HotPinkDominatrxSlut · Answer

I'm a very petite blonde hair blue eyed white girl and have always loved talk sexy dark black men. The talker and darker and blacker the better. I'm 4'11" and I'm married to and have kids with a very dark sexy black man who is well over 7'.

Bluemax · Answer

Not being attracted to does not equal hate.

And women who do like tall men are often tired of having to defend their preference, hence they might lash out and get upset when the subject is brought up.

TheFlak38 · Answer

Because the sexual marketplace is rigged in their favour. It's life on tutorial mode.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

If you want to know how to pull as a short guy, just learn to dance and get out there.

Anonymous · Answer

Because they perceive height a strength value and it work on their caveman brain.

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