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Would you rather fail all the way to the top and retire rich and famous with everyone kissing your butt on the way out the door, but be remembered for decades for being extremely incompetent and a drain on everyone around you. Or would you rather be underappreciated in your time and never become rich or have a loving partner, but later be remembered for being a legend who is revered in your industry and nation?

("Fun" Fact: Tesla died at age 86 as a virgin.)

This is what someone asked me four years ago. I told them I was depressed because women are almost never attracted to me, and no matter what I did, nothing changed. They told me to stop going after women, and to start working on myself. If I'm meant for a woman, she will arrive only once I'm ready and "worthy" of her. If not, then... Well, that's the quote. They told me to work on being happy and don't wait for anyone else to make me happy in life. But is that always applicable for everyone? Maybe some people won't feel like they're living a full life unless they have a partner in it?

So I ask you, fellas. What do you think?

I had this happen a few times when I was younger. I refrained to hit it fast because I saw her as a girlfriend potential and wanted something long term (there was definitely making out involved).

On three different occasions this approach ended the worst way possible for me (permanent friendzone). Lots of hope, heart, effort, time, money and worst of all my self esteem / reputation was completely really damaged. .

But seriously at what point do you risk her assuming your okay with being just a platonic friend

This doesn’t apply of course if she legitimately wants to wait to marriage. But if she says that then she better have very low number or be a virgin. High number women in this scenario are completely bullshitting you. Especially if they just recently slept was someone else before they met you.