Why Don't Girls Like Me?

[MrSpine]

Ok, I'm seriously confused on what's going on right now. I'm 19 and part of the air force. Before this, I was in college (I did 2 years of college before this and started at 16 years old). I'm an A1C and my job is financial management and comptroller. I got stationed in Florida and I'm from Washington state, so I know absolutely no one in Florida besides one person. I never had a girlfriend before so I've currently been looking around and can't find anyone. I messaged 90 women on ig and only 3 have responded. One of them hasn't responded to me in 2 weeks and the other 2 have boyfriend's. At my base, there's barely any women here and all of them just pass by without showing any interest. Here's a pic of my body. Is it cause I'm short (I'm 5'7)? I've had three girls rate me before. They rated me a 7, 8, and an 8.5. Looks like me being 40 year old virgin is pretty realistic.

[Turrorrr]

there are several possibilities. one is that you are trying too hard or you are being needy. girls can sense that and this can devaluate you.
the other possibility is that you have some 'defect' which can be seen quickly in any interaction and girls get a bit uncomfortable. like some talk defect or when you try to express yourself or you do some unusual moves on your face in your everyday life.
the third possibility is that you are a bit depressed and people can sense that and your attitude.
i would say the easiest for you to know is ask yourself if you have trouble making friends in general. if yes, then it's probably possibility no.1.
you should focus more on actually meeting people, join some activities you enjoy. be serious but realxed and when you see a girl you like, smile at her. try to look misterious and important in a way. then build connection, ask her out. dress nice, but not too nice.
you are quite toned and this is your advantage. girls are also sexual beings and they like guys, but in order for you not to get friendzoned, you should look good and being toned helps a lot.

[moviedude714]

Another reminder of how I never liked how for guys it seems it's primarily social behavior based

[ilikefrogsalot]

I think you're very attractive, so I don't think your physical appearance is the problem. I know having a girlfriend is tempting, but you really should focus on yourself and your career now while you're young. You have all the time in the world find a girlfriend and it'll be a lot easier to find one once you're financially stable with a house. Invest in yourself now and reap the benefits later. It'll be worth it, I promise.

[MrSpine]

What makes me so attractive?

[ilikefrogsalot]

You're lean and bulky in the arms, so I know you are disciplined and you take care of yourself well. Most girls don't like huge bulk, they like guys with a good balance of lean/bulk. I can't see your face, but if your body is that attractive, I imagine your face is just as attractive (if not more).

[MrSpine]

I would show a pic of my face but I'm not comfortable showing it on the internet. But girls have seen pics me with my face and rated me 7, 8, and an 8.5

[Avicenna]

You're wasting your time worried about the wrong things.

Just talk to women you find interesting and ask them out if the convos go well.

[Anonymous]

Don't try to find women online unless you are 6' tall or more, rich, and as good looking as a male model.