Why is it that women can't accept us the way we are (in general)?

[PenguinMan_]

So I always hear women talk about how men only want to get in their pants or whatnot. I got dumped because I didn't want to get in her pants lol.

I'm 24 years old and a virgin by choice. I haven't met anyone worth being intimate with and so have decided to keep my virginity. Nothing wrong with that, but whenever I hear the things some women have done to my male counterparts, I kinda started thinking that some women don't know what they want. Can someone please enlighten me about this situation?

[kyleelyn199723]

You need a girl that matches how you feel. She probably felt offended that when time came and you have been dating , you didn’t want to have sex and that is her need in a relationship. Sounds like you don’t have a balanced understanding that you can have sex with somebody but not always make it about sex.

[PenguinMan_]

I believe that the intimacy of sex shouldn't be reached with anyone. It should be worth it in my opinion

[kyleelyn199723]

Well then you need to find someone that feels the same. You can’t expect someone that doesn’t feel the same to be okay without being intimate.

[hellacray]

They want to upgrade.

Like if they see a guy that's better than you then they want to go for that guy while they're still young.

That's why men say women like to party and explore in their younger years. Then once they reach their 30's or 40's that's when they want to settle down with you.