Why is it so hard for women to accept reality?

[Filthy_Immigrant]

the quote above couldnt of sum it up any better.

however it seems like women struggle with their illusions the most. can't say it doesn't happen but you rarely hear men demanding their crush and future S/Os to look like the women they beat off in porn. not even incels who beat off to porn multiple times a day

women in the other hand, even the ones who are way below in the league believe that they are entitled to a man who is +6', +6" in penis length, makes 6 figures, +10 in looks and the list goes on

so to sum it all it always made me wonder, why do women struggle to face reality a lot more?

[SolitarySolace]

Women have been told for years that men are dangerous and toxic. So they gravitate towards validation especially after being taught that having a family is somehow oppressive and benefits “the patriarchy.”


Men have given up on women because of this and instead gravitate towards porn. Doing this instead also keeps men free from all of the things men associated with MGTOW warn other men who are not associated with MGTOW about.


Which only feeds into the rhetoric being told to women that men are dangerous and toxic. 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Filthy_Immigrant]

true but porn is not a better solution either. that shit messes up your brain and keeps you numb and sedated.

to be honest I think this is the main reason why prostitution is illegal. because the elites know that if they kept legal we men would replace women with them instead of porn which doesn't leave profit for them in the long run.

either way is still not 100% legal and a lot of us men are still going after it and most of all enjoying it

[siezuresalad]

Yeah, that picture sums it up 100% I’m just grateful I never raised women who get their validation from social media.

Men need to step up to be better fathers.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

if we are allowed to. lets be honest, feminists not only intervenes but for some odd reason they also believe fathers are never needed

[siezuresalad]

For sure. It's part of the marxist's plan to break down the family and keep men weak.

[Sevenpointfive]

i don't know? porn has been around for a very long time, but it hasn't been so easily accessible like it is today. prostitution was also legal for a long time and while not legal anymore is overlooked by the law. it's not easy where i am to find a prostitute, but i feel confident that i could find some female by the end of the day especially if i offered money. that's the reality of it. she just wants the money.

so i don't think porn ruined men. men were jerking off before porn. jerking off is a decision. spending money for sex is also. social media didn't ruin women but it has made people stupider. you've made the entire world her high school, so if a girl isn't getting validation from there, she can get it online somehow. luckily i can't lie for the life of me, so don't ask my opinion on looks. i will call a girl fat if she asks me if she's fat and she's fat. i try not to be rude, so i don't say anything. i make it uncomfortable for her. so she realizes my answer without having to call me an asshole.

i won't say all women seek validation on this scale through social media, but to me that is the point of social media. guys do it there to. life was a lot different before cell phones and the world wide web.

it's funny that it should be an equal transaction. man wants to see girl naked. girl gets naked seeking validation. relationship?

but when you factor in the attractiveness of both people and subtract the difference that isn't equal. and money is the solution. that is my reality.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

"men were jerking off before porn. jerking off is a decision."

but if you understood how the male brain really works you would know why it ruined us. you see before porn we men had to work hard and make proof ourselves valuable before we ever get to see women come out of their clothes for us.

now thanks to porn, especially now that its more accessible and free men have gotten lazy and would rather beat off to porn instead of making themselves presentable to women. not that I blame them as women nowadays are not always worth the effort either way and this is where social media ruining them comes in.

I'm not saying you are ugly but say if you go out to a club and find a woman you want to get it on with. the odds are she is going to reject you not because again you are ugly but because she already has a bunch of chads on social media simping after her whenever she takes a selfie or post provacative pics.

so with that said the modern women mindset is "I already got simps drooling over me on social media, so that must mean I'm hot as fuck and can reject any man I perceived as a loser." so they expect these same results in the real world

so at the end of the day we are all chasing a hyped up delusion

[Sevenpointfive]

not me bro. i don't seek out new problems for myself.

[Bolt1104]

A lot of this comes from stereotypes, not reality. Both men and women can struggle with illusions when society pushes unrealistic standards on everyone. Porn gives men fake expectations, and social media can do the same for women but that doesn’t mean one gender “can’t accept reality.” It just means everyone is being influenced by the same digital world.

Most women don’t walk around demanding a millionaire model with a perfect body. Most men also don’t expect their girlfriend to look like a porn star. Those are extreme examples, not the norm.

The real issue is that both genders are dealing with pressures, insecurities, and unrealistic images online. It’s not a “women problem” or a “men problem.” It’s a human problem.

When you strip away the internet noise, most people men and women want the same things: genuine connection, respect, stability, and honesty. Blaming one gender just divides people instead of helping anyone understand anything.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

again action speaks louder than words.

there are women out there who are ugly and fat that will literally shout that they only date men who are above 6' and a 10 in looks knowing damn well thats way out of their leagues.

but let me know when you see an incel bragging on how he only dates women who look like pornstars

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