Why are women so difficult?

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alex453 · Accepted Answer

Women aren't difficult at all once you get it. Getting it is the tedious, hurtful process that causesa lot of men to give up. Modern movies and media have brainwashed men to become nice guys and to put women on pedestals. The far majority of men don't understand women plain and simple. A man who is on his purpose, excelling in life, consistently growing and is an uplifting character all togeather will have no problem meeting, and eventually settling down with the woman he wants. A man who never puts his woman as his #1 priority in life gives her something to work towards. Unfortunately, as a result of not focusing on their purpose guys grow up thinking that women are the problem because they have no success with them. Women are emotional, and they emotionally respond. When a man acts weak, women emotionally respond by becoming turned off, when a man acts strong, women emotionally respond by being turned on. A womans level of interest for you is directly linked to how you convey yourself around her. Its also important to note that what women say they want, and what they emotionally respond to are 2 very different things. A woman might say she wants to spend more time with you, but when you do just that it turns her off. This goes back to the idea of giving her something to work towards, women always want the attention of the man they love. In order for them to consistently love you, your purpose has to truly be #1 on your priority list. Remember scarcity creates value.

Many men also unfortunately learned that in order to make a woman like you, you have to try hard. Its the illusion of action. Women need time and space alone in order for their emotioms to grow for you, space and time is essentially the most critical aspect for a womans interest to grow. Men jump in right away when they like a girl because we are visual, girls need time and space in order to open up to a man and feel comfortable with him. Pressuring them to speed up their natural process of opening up to a man inevitably leads to rejection. A man who puts his mission in life as his #1 priority never have this problem. The moral of the story is when you are indifferent towards women, and put your personal growth and career as your #1 priority, women will be attracted because drive, success, and ambition are all strong attributes of masculine energy that biologically represent the strongest genes. Women want to settle down and mate with the man who has the strongest genes. The man who displays the most masculine and dominant behavior all while showing the most emotional stability will be the most successful at doing that.

I hope this helped clear some air. Goodluck

MittenstheGlove · Accepted Answer

This is a very easy answer; because women are their own worst enemies in a lot of aspects.

Let’s take a look at different these different aspects without preservation.

Now, I think equality is a beautiful thing, but feminism is a very warped ideal and what’s worse has no standard so every woman who claims to feminist may have a different idea of feminism. Sex being a huge one; women who believe that sex is empowering in the ways guys do it differ largely from
women that have sex with more discretion.

This is further perpetuated when people like Nikki Minaj and Cardi B rap about just that and how many dudes they do have sex with. The problem is that not only are these two wealthy, but they’re artist and their words are taken as gospel. Guess what, these women consider themselves to be very feminist.

And this is only one example.

Lunasss · Accepted Answer

We are emotionial creatures that wants to be loved and adored by the man we love. We like to create drama sometimes if we not getting what we want (affection) or depends of situation. But remember to love yourself first and never allow to be disrespected. Some people are worth fighting for... others don’t. Just follow your heart and patience pls

Киттйлинк · Accepted Answer

In what ways? m? I can say the same about men... everyone can be.. it’s best to learn to understand why someone is the way they are... if you can’t, it means you should move on to the next... not every person is the same...

ChronicThinker · Answer

We're not - narcissists are, though.

Spawnface · Answer

Women are difficult because society has failed in addressing certain issues. The main issues devolve from the adverse results of humanist thinking. While we are convinced that everybody has freewill we then ignore the psychological nature of the human. Women are frazy because they suffer from a wide range of pathological inflictions. The same as men do. Its because we falsely attributed reason and logic to their behaviour, when the only logic present is in the subconscious mind and the observer.

A quick look at history will tell anyone that women have been psychologically broken, as has all of mankind. Or you could say we never had the enlightenment to do better anyways.

normalice · Answer

everyone is, ultimately, in it for themselves. The 'difficulty' is in figuring out what it is that other people want. And the reason this is so difficult is because people tend to project their own desires and motivations onto other people. The reason this is particularly difficult for men in regards to women is because "what women want" is often a mystery even to them. So, when men project their own desires onto women, it already doesn't make sense, and when they try to correct it, they can't because nothing is correct.

Aizou · Answer

They're only as difficult, as you are different. If you want something or expect something they don't, they'll appear difficult to you. If you instead try to see eye to eye, you'll notice that you aren't so different after all.

winterfox10 · Answer

They aren't, as long as you understand that you have approach things one day at a time, and remain consistent in your behavior. NEVER ASSUME ANYTHING. Be sure to keep your word to her, because that will go a long way to winning a woman over.

As a general rule when dealing with women, you should make some kind of small gesture, and then let her choose how to respond. You need to assume that absolutely any bold thing you do, could (and probably will...) be misinterpreted.

turnmypainintopower1 · Answer

why are humans difficult... and why do people men and women EVER think they will understand the other gender, BECAUSE YOU won't inless you can be a complete women with every hormone experienced EVEYTHING experienced being a women... and also experiencing EVERYTHING being a man... so inless you can do that you will never get the other gender, we would work well together if you knew exactly how women operated

aa180 · Answer

Because lack of drama is too "boring" in their eyes. Simply being content and happy all the time is too "dull" and "predictable", so they like to make things difficult in order to "spice things up", even though that's just an unnecessary pain in the butt.

RussianNestingDoll · Answer

It keeps men in check and they get more hesitant to disrespect you. It's preemptive. I wish I wouldn't have been so nice all these years. They do always come crawling back when it's too late. Suddenly they want the nice lady when she's completely through with him.

lightbulb27 · Answer

brain designed opposite of ours, different purpose, 100,000 years of emtional programming, and a very difficult upbrining for a lot of them.

great @. they are designed this way, it's kinda tragic, but amazing as well. Learn and you will be rewarded.

Jaximus-Lion · Answer

They are not difficult. You need to learn how they act and react in order to learn how to communicate with them just like your did with other bro dudes but you can't talk to a female like your are talking to a dude. Acceptance is not a bro-power but keep not developing and keep ''chill'' is what bros can and that's why you find it difficult

FreshOutaIdeas · Answer

You gotta weed out the ok ones from the narcs, unfortunately these days there are a lot of narcs.

Anonymous · Answer

Old joke-"what's the difference between a pussy and a cunt?" Answer- "a pussy is this wet wonderful juicy thing that makes you feel fantastic and is the best thing in the world. A cunt is what owns it". Women are Buyers in a Buyer's market. They can get laid whenever they want and they get to decide who. Men compete and they decide. This makes them arrogant and thus difficult

Daniel3035 · Answer

Because they want to be. It’s fun to them they think they’ll find their husband on time what they don’t know is that doesn’t happen. In the meantime while believing a false ideology they play games with guys like I wonder what he does if I do this or this maybe if cheat on him how would he react etc.

Anonymous · Answer

Because men tend to stop loving them when they are too sweet, they take them for granted and they move on to chase a bitchy woman. Women these days know that guys love challenges and that easy women are boring and attract only the horny desperate dudes that will treat them like crap

DizzyAster2 · Answer

They are not once you understand their basic needs.
They need security, and they need that in financial, physical, emotional, mental, and more and in any combination of those.

Actually, both sexes need security, but go about it in different ways.

janna_jcb · Answer

Why are men so difficult? Why is everyone so difficult? I’m just gonna spend my life cuddling animals

Phanta · Answer

Because feminism has turned women into spoiled brats.

NicolaD · Answer

We’re human beings - all humans can be difficult, men included

Bananaman177 · Answer

You expect too much from them.

slatyb · Answer

Why are some men so clueless? The guys who ask questions "Why are women" are the guys who don't know any women.

AaronKrieger · Answer

Women probably ask/wonder the same about us. Think on why it'd by difficult for both sides and then maybe you'll have your answer.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Less then men tbh.  Unless if the girl gets awkward all the time overthinking things.  But men are more complacted in my opinion.

SketchForger · Answer

Difficult how? They're not a jigsaw puzzle, they're a human being.  Shouldn't be considered difficult if you actually know how to communicate with regular people.

MusicMayhem · Answer

Do you wanna elaborate on a problem rather than generalise all women?

Anonymous · Answer

Not all women are difficult. But yeah, lots are. Because they're from Venus, I guess.

Deydey12345 · Answer

We are selective.. With want to breed with a male that has good genes. Just like animals do.

musicloverr8 · Answer

we are emotional creatures. I would like to believe we are less difficult in mid-age range I. e. 30's.

welshmatt625 · Answer

Lack of understanding more than then being difficult. Communication is important

demonics · Answer

They're not. You over think them probably. Pretend you are dealing with a child and women will become super simple to understand.

Lance1965 · Answer

Because they can be but don't ask them why, they don't even know.

Iron_Man · Answer

Because they're seekimg out a good high-quality man that makes a lot of money so they can have a bright future with you

DDpsy · Answer

Because straight women are not really capable of real basic human emotions. They are just really good at faking them.

Anonymous · Answer

It's one of the se questions that no matter what you say, you'll get dislikes lol.

Anonymous · Answer

Cause they have been treated like princesses since birth and are coddled to in society and they love playing the victim

Liam_Hayden · Answer

I have really only encountered a few difficult women in my life.

WhoDatGuy · Answer

You want to understand them? Read how to be a 3% man

Anon-ymous1 · Answer

Because they know they're on a time limit. I mean, sure, guys are too, but ours is way longer.

jackie1999 · Answer

Because you don't understand them...

atheistaredumb · Answer

they are not just stupid  look at them that way  and you will realize what im saying is true

DaChillCookie · Answer

I have no fucking idea tbh

OjosOscuros3 · Answer

Because you don’t want to listen.

Anonymous · Answer

Because if they aren’t people will think they are sluts, whores, etc.

SarahsSummer · Answer

Because fucktard men?

Rangers · Answer

Because they like playing games

Anonymous · Answer

they like to be right all the time. you're not allowed to be right with them

Logorithim · Answer

Some are, but that is a personal failing.

ariadneR · Answer

One of life's great mysteries

CreativeMumble · Answer

Difficult in what way?

Puppylover_129 · Answer

Because men like a challenge.

Bubblesxxxxx · Answer

Why are men so difficult?

Kinsey · Answer

Difficult in what way?

oreodair · Answer

Why are men so stupid?

Ripper_E · Answer

They don't even know why

Secret6620 · Answer

Who knows🤷🤷🤷

AngelLily · Answer

Females are very emotional creatures.

NEW_YUKI · Answer

Because

Myk13 · Answer

Because to them, we are.

Browneye57 · Answer

They were built that way. :)

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