Why does it feel like so many other women don’t want other women to think they’re unique or special especially when it comes to men?

[Anonymous]

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I mean like if a guy compliments you or is dating you they’re like “oh wow he’s so horny” if he compliments you, or if he approached you they’re like “oh he probably did that with 10 other women today”

[shoeboxcerealcard]

Because they aren't thinking nor do they know how to think. Environment produces a corresponding condition in the mind. What is happening in the mind control everything about a person. Social conditioning is why people become their environment. It is the repetition and acceptance of the environment in the mind of the individual that programs them. It's because they don't know how to think. Mental activity is not thinking. If you aren't thinking you will 100% be a product of your environment, whether it be online or not online.

That is the answer to your question. Another comment mentioned peer pressure and that is 100% right. People who aren't thinking and are put in environments that produce peer pressure will often give in to those pressures. Many gladly without a fight I'm sure. They idealize the others in their environment. It's mass ignorance.

So understand these girls aren't all evil or mean or jaded but they just aren't thinking. Everyone sounds like a good person if you ask them what is right and wrong but yet our society is messed up. It's because people don't do what they know.

[laly520]

some r jealous n have low self esteem so they try to boost it by bringing u down
n others actually spreading awareness cuz indeed lot of guys use compliments to get in ur pants🤷‍♀️

[Anonymous]

Women tend to say they support each other but in reality a lot of them can’t stand each other. More than likely there’s a chance she likes the dude. She may be jealous that he likes you, not her. She may just not get attention so she’s mad at other women who get attention. She may have a messed up love life, so maybe she doesn’t want others to be happy when it comes to potential relationships.

[ProbablyClueless]

Social conformity and feeling like a member of the group are very important to a lot of women. It's one of those hardwired social dynamics.

If you think about it from a "ye olden days of yore" perspective, being a member of the group was how you stayed safe. Women benefited from being part of the biggest tribe they could fit in with.

[shoeboxcerealcard]

100% It's just social conditioning. Humans mirror their environment. Because school or parents teach their kids how to think. Parents don't even know nor the schools.

[Anonymous]

Can you elaborate a little. I'm not sure what you mean.

[LadyKitty]

Its because misery loves company.

[HappyWoman34]

Jealousy.

[Anonymous]

What do you mean?