Is this guy just being nice to just get sex/nudes or what and what should I do?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I’ve been talking to this guy for 4 or so weeks now. And today was the first time we have ft (he also goes to school) so he knows about the problems I have with anxiety and other things and seems to sometimes ask me if I’m doing ok if he notices if something is off and a lot of the time in class or at lunch I catch him glancing at me or he sometimes try’s to get closer to me during class. Ok so when we were on ft we started asking questions his start getting a bit sexual like. R u a virgin or have you’ve given a bj or would u do it. And then like would I do the deed with him and that stupid generic question if it’s just two of us in a room and we had everything we need what would u do. There’s more but those r some of the questions he asked which he has never asked before until now like yea he has asked if I would send nudes but I said no and never asked again until now so like what should I do or what r his true intentions

[Alyssa11]

He could just want to sleep with you or he could just be a horny teenager. I would vote for the latter. Guys at that age are consumed by their sexual urges.


The only way to know for sure is when he mentions sex again you tell him straight up that he’s being weird and you don’t like it. You will not discuss these things with him and will only discuss it with your boyfriend. If you don’t want to lose your virginity etc (which is perfectly fine!!!) then you tell him straight up. The way in which he responds to that will tell you all. Please do this so you don’t waste your time and the last thing I’d ever want for you is to feel pressured into something you don’t want to do. Guys at that age are so stupid - trust me, when you get older and they come running back you think ew what did I see in him... then again he could be a good guy 🤷🏻‍♀️ Just put yourself first.

[AnonyWoman4309]

He only wants you for something sexual and that's for sure, and yeah he was definitely trying to get nudes out of you. Had you said yes (which thankfully you didn't!) he would have asked you to send them.
This happened to me before, the entire ft thing, the let's play a game which led to the guy asking sexual questions. You know how many women that man may try that on? Walk away from him to show that you're not some trinket you win and throw away the next day.

[Anonymous]

What a dickhead. He knows that you've got anxiety etc and still gets sexual. Leave the dumbass alone.

[Anonymous]

If you don't automatically know what to do in this situation it's clear what you're going to do. Ergo there's no point in us giving you advice. And I'm sorry but you deserve exactly what's going to happen.

[spartan55]

What are your true intentions?