Is my boyfriend a pervert?

[Anonymous]

I have been dating a guy for 1 year. we are in the same class. i proposed me in 1 month of being freinds even I gave in. we got very close very fast. he has the habit of lying about insignificant things and making up stories. But recently I found him having an another instagram account where he follows all sexual and nude accounts. He follows them on telegram and is even added in some whatsapp group where they share nudes not him but people. His gallery had nude pics and videos of many girls. He even finds one of our 40+ teacher hot and Is always commenting on her figure. His feed is also full of girls. He is a nice guy like otherwise never even forced me for sex and our female freinds feel safe with him. I don't know I am confused now

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I am a F (19) I have been dating a guy (19) for 1 year
Ps he lost his both parents at a young age and is kinda emotionally immature

[GallopAcrossEurope]

Pervert? Yes. All men are. No exceptions.

Is it typical today? Yes. A lot. (Coughs)

Should you be worried about it? I mean, I don't know? This is his way out releasing pent up sexual needs without anybody discovering it and without pressing his needs on anyone. It's also the reason why your female friends feel safe with him - he already makes sure to separate his sexual needs from his day to day actions, so when he is around them he actually tries to listen to them and isn't focused on their sexual attractiveness because, well, he already met them. When he is alone, however... he indulges himself.

I could see it being a thorn in your relationship specifically though, in case you are unable to somehow deal with his desire and he begins to use these accounts to sleuth around for another partner, so if you ever feel he is not faithful this is you ticket to knowing.

Whatever you do, just don't tell him you discovered this, he'll probably drop dead from embarrassment if you tell him.

[JonAsk69]

Sounds like he’s probably a nice guy overall and is safe with your friends but like so many guys he is definitely addicted to porn and hides it which only makes it worse. I’d confront him and be honest about your feelings and what you want as well as how it makes you feel. But definitely think about what it is you want first and see how if dealing with another’s addiction is even worth it let alone trying to get someone to quit something that they may not want to stop.

[Anonymous]

It weird of him to have nude pictures of other people when he’s in a relationship.

[summiter]

He is obviously a horny guy but he has gotten way carried away with all the porn, nudes and sexual accounts. How often do you two have sex?/ How old is he? He will not change unless you say something about it directly to him. What are your thoughts?

[slatyb]

"he has the habit of lying about insignificant things and making up stories."

Should be a deal-breaker.

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

Doesn't sound like a decent guy, but hey, if that's what you want to subject yourself to, be my guest. Just don't come crying to me, when he breaks your heart. I'll just tell you "I told you so"

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

Status update. Yeah, makes no difference just sounds like you're trying to stay with him, because you think you need to

[Anonymous]

Probably. If you knew the thoughts that go through most guys heads you'd probably not want to date any of them. 😆😆😆

[Brando10222]

Yeah, he's pervert. You deserve better

[KrakenAttackin]

Pervert? News flash, guys like sex.

[Anonymous]

Sadly typical guy at your age.

[LazerBean]

Yes.

[Danny_dan92]

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[In_Trance]

I don't think so

[Asker]

And how