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I am 26. I have it all going for me—awesome life, great achievements, tall and I’m really lucky. I can use apps and get plenty of matches, but I often find that I’m not treated well

What makes me consider giving up is the reality that when I see an attractive woman, she’s often distracted by endless options. ADHD attraction. It leaves me wondering if all this effort is even worth it. A friend told me the average girl has the same options as like a celebrity male. Kinda believable.

Should I just step back from the dating scene? It’s depressing. I can say I should be able to attract a stunning girl without too much effort when I realistically weigh up my life, my friends agree, so where is she? The problem I have is that I’m good looking but not very very good looking. I think that’s what you need, insanely good looks.

I added a poll to make votes easier 😅 I will pick what wins

All women want equality. But women don’t date their equal.

If you look at Elon musk all the women he has kids with are minuscule in comparison to him. Same is going to happen to me, I’m going to live this great life and do amazing things just to attract a girl who is nowhere near as good as me just has a pretty face and smiles at me. For me that’s enough.

The point I’m making is that women demand equality yet they don’t want equality in a man, they want to be equal to an excellent man. It’s bizarre

Where is the fairness in that? A woman earning 50k doesn’t want a man earning 50k for example. That’s not enough for her.

Imagine a man kindly approaches you on a college campus to strike up a conversation. What factor is the most important in determining how attracted you are to him and how happy you are to be approached by him?

Please share your opinion for the relative importance of these factors!

What does he need to have or do to be attractive enough for her? How much of a disadvantage does he have to overcome? Tell me your ideal 5'6'' man who would win your heart.

Women are often accused of virtue signaling in these cases, but please give the harsh and honest truth. If you are a girl who is thin yourself, then your opinion is especially appreciated!