Why don’t you take effort into your appearance?

[Marathonmama]

We ladies have the easy life if we are attractive. I’m so sick and tired of obese ladies being glamorized, it’s disgusting and unhealthy, in sick of obese chicks telling me do you think all guys are attracted to you because of your body? A lot of guys like big girls!! No! Every famous rich good looking dude gets a skinny hot chick with a body like mine. Maybe the gain wait but originally they had my shape when they attracted him. I’m not being rude but I am a 32B-24-34 I gave the exact same measurements as my girl Alessandra Ambrosio, the most stunning women to ever live! Yes I think having the body of a super model a Victoria’s Secret Angel is appealing and attracting to nearly all men. Yes I’m blessed with good genes but I run 8-10 miles a day and hit the gym. You could do that too but decide not too than act like there’s something wrong with men or me when men drool over me in a thong bikini. I’m sick of it we all make our own choices

[Finchie40]

Because some people don’t really give 2 shits about appearance, appearance really doesn’t mean shit if you really think about it , we all don’t stay beautiful forever. We can choose to enhance our appearance but that comes down to our own personal decision on whether we want to or not , just because someone goes to the gym everyday and watches what they eat, it doesn’t make them healthy , it just gives someone more stamina and endurance but it doesn’t make someone healthy , I know people that exercised every day and watched what they ate and they still dropped dead at a young age , so exercise has really nothing to do with our health whatsoever , social media just wants us to think that way , so companies can make money off of us , our bodies are designed for survival , why it’s so easy for people to gain fat compared to losing fat also Beauty only comes from the eye of the beholder , no matter what you look like not everyone is going to like you or dislike you , so people that constantly worry about their appearance are people that like validation to make themselves feel better about themselves , basically look at me , look at me what really makes someone beautiful is their heart

[AliceGregory]

In my opinion I think our standards of beauty are stuck between two extremes: that being what we see on social media and at the other end is the whole body positivity movement. The problem with body positivity is obvious: it promotes obesity which has now become a worldwide health problem. Now you might think Instagram would promote health but the problem is not that the girls you see there are fit. The problem is that they fall into this "genetic elite" when 97% of women don't have a ribcage that can give them an hourglass figure, genes which will deposit all their fat into their boobs while leaving the rest of their body skin and bones or insertions in their hips that give them a perfect bubble butt. No matter how much time and effort most girls put into their appearance, they can never look that good.

in my opinion, we should be focusing on setting a high but fair standard. We should be putting women who are fit but born with the flaws the majority of us still have on a pedestal. Nothing quite embodies this like the artwork of Julie Bell (my favourite painter). If you look at the women she uses as models, they are beautiful and have great physiques you can tell they worked hard for but at the same time have the flaws the vast majority of us do.

[Caroline91]

Just wondering what precipitated this question?

[Marathonmama]

Girls on this being nasty saying your husband only loves you for your body or once you get old he’ll leave you or I’m shallow. Ok I’m shallow because I have a perfect figure? How does that even make sense

[Caroline91]

Got it. Thanks for the explanation. Yeah, I have noticed some women being pretty rude to women who are older than 20s. I tend to call them out on it when I see it. It's just unnecessary. Just enjoy your figure and realize these girls are immature and shallow, themselves. I understand the frustration!

[Marathonmama]

Thank you sweety

[ManOnFire]

You got it all wrong. Many men do like thick women, and it was never unusual. However I will say you have many men that will marry women who have model thin bodies because they see them as a trophy and something to show the world, or what they want other men to be jealous of, but these same men will have sex with thicker women because they feel that a thick body is better for sex, or she does things that the thinner high-maintenance woman won't do.

I think you are fooling yourself.

[Marathonmama]

No no I don’t if you look at every single hot, jacked, rich celebrity he has a chick with a supermodels body like mind he’s never got a 400 pounder ever! Sometimes they got fat but when they got him they had a body like mine

[ManOnFire]

@Marathonmama Those men are celebrities. Key word. Of COURSE they're going to pick women who also have a classic celebrity look, but I don't doubt for one minute that a lot of these guys wouldn't - or maybe already have - had sex with thick women. They just aren't going to say that out loud.

[AI Opinion]

Beauty is diverse and personal to each individual. While some people might admire certain body types or traits, others cherish different qualities. It's important to celebrate the uniqueness and be comfortable in your own skin. Everyone's journey with appearance and health is their own, shaped by personal choices and circumstances. Inspiring others lies in self-love and encouraging confidence, in whatever form that takes.✨

[Zack-Bann]

Hate to break it to you but the phrase “lonely at the top” was coined due to this very phenomenon


People who don’t do the hard work it takes will never sit around and praise someone who does because that’s admitting inferiority


You’ll never meet another woman who’s also in shape and works out every day saying negative things about your lifestyle because she understands it too


We can’t control the minds of people but no one can control human primal desire
They can put as many fat women on a runway as they want. It will never be more appealing than a fit woman with feminine features

[Babygirl_S]

I certainly do. Life would be boring if I didn’t. I genuinely enjoy taking care of myself.

[Marathonmama]

Agreed girlie!!! Keep it up

[Stu234432]

I work out every week. I want flat abs and a six pack

[Marathonmama]

That’s awesome! Keep at it

[jazzy34]

Try getting some depth to you. You’re not going to have that “hot body” forever.

[morganherrel]

But she's putting in effort in that department—more than most women her age do. Obviously her body will continue to age. For the time being, she's enjoying the rewards, which is totally deserved.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Sorry but it's true every guy doesn't want a woman with an athletic slim body. I workout daily and im a big guy. I want something I can hold on to. I like think curvy women. Sorry but I like what I like can't help it 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️🤷‍♂️

[Marathonmama]

I got an ass

[Bklynbadboy12]

Then you good boo! So why are you upset your gonna hold your own no matter what. Just keep doing you

[Staximus]

If somebody is fat and they don't have time to exercise, they could just not eat so much. I'm fat and lost 30 pounds in 6 months and I did zero workouts. Just stop stuffing your fat face.

[LiamJHayden]

Seriously! My one and only physical deal breaker with women is obesity. I don't care about race, height, eye or hair color, but I won't date a voluntary couch potato.

[DerekC321]

Nice having a hot bod. Gotta keep the dudes off you lol

[morganherrel]

Wow. o_0 based af — speak the truth, sister

[Marathonmama]

I will do

[msc545]

Your narcissism is NOT attractive.

[RavVid]

Well said.

[eagle1951]

why should I