Hah. You would HATE an old friend of mine.
Showers maybe once a week. doesn't realise clothes need to be washed once in a while, especially socks.
Leaves food scraps on her bed for no reason other than laziness.
Im not really friends with her any more though (strangely enough IM the one who did something wrong).
What you need to do though kid is lighten up. There is nothing wrong with that shirt, i wouldn't wear it personally, but only cause im not a fan of the show.
In the image is the kind of crap i wear. The jeans get washed maybe once in a fortnight. And theyre usually a slim bootleg rather than skinny leg and dont show my ankles. Im short. And the top can swap between a dark coloured singlet top, a red singlet top or whatever T-shirt i can get my hands on.
Sometimes it has an image on it (todays top is one i got from PAX last year with a VR headset on it) but not often.
Some days i dont have a shower. Some days i dont wash my hair or shave under my arms. I haven't shaved my legs since i was fourteen. And now and then i forget to put deoderant on.
To you this might be disgusting, and if I've gone more than a single day without a shower i would tend to agree with you. But its life. I can only be fucked looking my best if I've got somewhere important to be. Not for going down the street or lounging around the house.
I dont wear makeup at all. Ever. I've been forced into it once but it felt shit on my face and i couldnt wait to get it off.
Not everyone dresses like you because some of us are down to earth and have bigger things to worry about.
For example, writing a long arse comment on an internet forum while grumbling how my doctor is an hour behind.
Im one of those girls that doesn't wear makeup, and I just let my hair air dry without doing much to it (naturally wavy/curly), I cut my nails short and don't paint them (musician/artist, long nails are a hindrance) and I get compliments on my looks a lot. Granted, I wear dresses and cute clothes, but nothing over the top. Sometimes i'll do jeans and a band tee. My skin is clear, my hair is healthy, I'm visibly happy, and people commend me for it. I'll wear makeup and straighten my hair every once in a while if I'm going to be wearing really nice clothes, but it's damaging and I don't lime what that type of routine has done to my hair and skin in the past. As far as clothes go, I dress frumpy sometimes because I dont need to be cute to run to the store or go to an early morning class, and I'm comfortable with myself enough to know that my clothes don't define me. Anyone important that sees me knows what I look like on a regular basis, and if seeing me frumpy turns them off then I don't want them in my life anyways.
They don't view it the way you do. For them, it's not about confidence or feeling gross, because they don't feel gross and they get their confidence from other things, or lack confidence. I have never seen girls who look as bad as you say, but I think I have a good idea of the type of women you actually mean--you don't understand women who like t-shirts, jeans or sweats, un-styled or plain hair and no makeup.
Basically, you have different values than those women do. They don't value how they look as much as you value how you look. And I can say from experience that they don't envy you, or most of them don't--they just think the same way you do about them, i. e. they don't understand you and they judge you by it. Some women think women who put a lot of effort into how they look are shallow, empty-headed, judgmental, doing it just to get men, etc, because some of these women are like that.
They just may be comfortable like that. Not everyone has the time or energy to make themselves up every morning especially when they are going to places where that isn't necessary. I dress comfortably when I go to class. I wouldn't want to wear makeup, a dress, and heels to struggle to walk across campus and sweat all of the makeup off to only go to like 2 classes.
People might not like to hear it or agree with it, but feminism is what contributes to much of society's laziness and lack of regard for physical appearance, notably in women, and lack of career/financial success in men. Lots of girls these days are not exactly shaving body hair like the armpits and legs because many of them are convinced that doing so would be supporting oppression of women and a patriarchy, or because feminism has convinced them that they can be lazy and that people will still accept them for being hairy/ugly beasts (even though nobody ever will). This coincides with wearing a decent outfit, putting in such time to make yourself look nice just requires too much effort and is therefore pointless to the girls too lazy to care. These same girls wonder why they're still single while all the girls around them are in happy relationships.
I appreciate the women who make sure they always look nice, it's actually a huge sign that they aren't going to be lazy girlfriends in my experience.
There can be many reasons for this:
1. I don't care attitude, that is they don't even care about themselves.
2. They are dismissive about their own looks and physique.
3. They are too lazy to take even a small effort to look good.
4. Casualness. Casual attitude.
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Tbh I couldn't care less about the way they look but the thing is some women give you dirty look just because you are well dressed and blaming other women for looking good in public. You don't know how much effort she has been putting on to look that way.
I thought you were referring to people who wear stained clothes and don't comb their hair at first.
But what's wrong with a tshirt and jeans? It's casual, it's comfortable, it's simple. If you're going to a place like school, who are you trying to impress. Your teachers? Lol. Sometimes there's no need to dress up. Not everyone is concerned about looking the best. And there's nothing wrong with that.
Because not all people care about what others think about them. Maybe some people are just comfortable in their own skin without seeking external validation. It sounds like you're judging them too hard.
you dont need to be glammed up every day, it would take the fun out of seeing her like that when we do something that requires it, but, i def. agree with you that you should NOT be going out in sweats. boys and girls. if you rolled out of bed in it, you should not be rolling in the streets in it
I thought I was the only one lmaoo. I actually ask myself if some people look at themselves in the mirror before they leave their house.
Because not everybody likes what you like, or thinks what you think. I barely wear makeup because I'm confident enough to go without. Sometimes I go out and dress in bland, ugly clothes because I just don't care lol
Some, hun, have no more Confidence in Caring how they Look and Others... Just do Not give a Darn, look like a Barn Yard. xx
Wondering the same thing.. That shirt would only be okay if it was all white, and dressed with a sophisticated jacket or something
Sometimes I don't really want to take the time and energy to make myself look nice. And I really don't care what anyone else thinks I look like.
Out of laziness or apathy. Some people may want to spend time on things they find more important-everyone has their own priorities
They can be suffering from low self esteem or any mental condition that cause them not care about their appearance.
lol why do you care
do what makes you comfortable and others don t have to follow your same principles
Well they're usually not the ones nabbing the big wig jobs and higher up promotions, I can tell you that much
That outfit is alright though. I can't be bothered to do the whole dress up thing on a daily basis. It's not for me.
some people just dont care or are too busy. or have other things that are more important to them
i guess you haven't figured out that different people have different tastes huh?
Low self-esteem, low self-confidence. Plus, some of them may have mental disorder that make them despise their appearance.
What's wrong with that outfit? I love Bob's Burgers.😂
well some of them don't like doing that others are just feminists
Different priorities !!
Lazy and I don't care attitude !!
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