Now, he's been dating another girl that I know for almost a year, and they do everything together. They go on trips, he treats her super well, they hang with all my friends. He never really did that with me. In fact, it was pulling teeth to get him to do anything.
Obviously it's because he probably likes her better & they click much better, but I feel he literally didn't put any effort into me at all. I feel a bit used and hurt. I know he wasn't the right guy for me, as our personalities were different, but how could he suddenly put so much effort into someone? I haven't dated for a year. I was his first relationship by the way, maybe I was asking for too much.
I'm pretty shy and quiet, so it's hard for me to do stuff. I just feel real dumb. I'm going to try to move on from this, but it does still hurt quite a bit. Why do some people do this? I'm sure plenty girls do too.