Hey guys I have a question about my relationship and I need some advice?

[MrUsername123]

Hi I know it's personal I got into another relationship after I broke up with my ex and got some time to rest before I got into another one. I been dating girls a lot the past 4 years and the trauma is hard to cope with but I got through it. I got cheated on had excuses why they broke up most of them liars and whatever. Been manipulated before used it just never ends. But now I got a hot girlfriend I mean she like a model bro and it scares me I don't know how I got to be her boyfriend but I guess she seems to really like me. I am not boasting about it just concerned I trust her but like her being good looking scares me I know she probably gets hit on a lot I called her before she knows about my past and wants to be with me. I get scared just thinking about her past we the same age it seems like a perfect fit for me but for her to be good looking and the girl I been looking for why do I feel like it's just going to get me more trauma if she did something and broke up with me relationships are scary man but I will try my best I guess that's all we can do. Do u guys have any advice when u date very attractive women? I like to hear other stories if u have?

[laly520]

some tips:Confidence in Yourself: Remember that you are worthy of love and affection. Your girlfriend chose to be with you for a reason. Work on building your self-esteem and confidence. Set Boundaries: Discuss boundaries with your girlfriend regarding interactions with others. Trust is important, but it's also okay to establish boundaries that make you both feel comfortable. Focus on the Present: Try not to let past traumas overshadow your present relationship. Enjoy the moments you share with your girlfriend and focus on building a strong connection. Seek Support if Needed: If your past experiences are affecting your mental health or the relationship, consider seeking support from a therapist or counselor. They can provide tools to help you cope and navigate your feelings

[MrUsername123]

Thanks I was thinking of that life is hard bro everyone needs a good friend to talk to

[Selene1600000]

Feeling scared after past cheating and manipulation is normal, but it can make you project fear onto a relationship that isn’t actually failing. A very attractive partner doesn’t automatically mean they are untrustworthy you still judge her by her actions, not your anxiety. Focus on building trust slowly instead of trying to mentally prepare for something going wrong.