Hey guys, just wondering about this as my ex boyfriend recently got a new girlfriend after a week of the break up (possibly a rebound) but she is severely over weight and has several mental health issues with anger management as well as moving in and out of hospital due to it. My main question being why do some guys (not all) down grade from their previous girlfriend when in a rebound relationship?
Also be aware that my ex is very charismatic and could have had any kind of very young and attractive girl.
This also happened to two of my other girl friends with their ex's and was also wondering if it is a trend or just us.
Thanks in advance xx
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It's a temporary reaction to a breakup. Essentially, ugly girls are easy to land in bed (generally), and they are more eager to please since they get less attention from guys compared to their more attractive competition. While I haven't had a rebound, I definitely noticed that less attractive girls are always more attentive, wanting to please and more sexually adventurous than the hot, skinny, big breasted girl. It takes little effort for a semi-attractive guy to land an unattractive girl, so he's using her for the short term. Landing a hot girl takes considerably more effort.
Your ex just wants a girl to polish his knob for a few weeks/months, while he is in search for a new hotter girl. In time, he'll move on once he finds a new girl.3