I was shown a photo of my ex and his new girlfriend and told some things about her. He left me three weeks after we broke up to be with her. It's been a year, and she's already living with him! After 3 years, he wouldn't live with me?
I was told she is a single mom, divorced, white trash and filed for bankruptcy. She is in her 30s but has aged horribly!
I don't know how to feel about myself now. I have no kids, am financially responsible, good job, own my car, and I'm def not hideous. And Im not even a bitch - we hardly fought in 3 years!! But I was never good enough for him... He always wanted me to change..
Why did he downgrade? Why is this person who I think has much less going for her than I do good enough?
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narcissistic people pretty much never admit they are narcissistic, and you are showing some pretty damn clear signs of being narcissistic.
The people here gave you mean remarks because you dished out mean remarks your to your boyfriend's current relationship. You seem to think your break up validates your behavior, and it doesn't.
Your biggest problem seems to be your outlook, and I can see that from the little bit you posted. Stop excusing yourself from your behavior when it's wrong, accept that people like others for different reasons (that means no "downgrade" bullshit), and be happy instead of bitter, like you are right now.0