I was shown a photo of my ex and his new girlfriend and told some things about her. He left me three weeks after we broke up to be with her. It's been a year, and she's already living with him! After 3 years, he wouldn't live with me?
I was told she is a single mom, divorced, white trash and filed for bankruptcy. She is in her 30s but has aged horribly!
I don't know how to feel about myself now. I have no kids, am financially responsible, good job, own my car, and I'm def not hideous. And Im not even a bitch - we hardly fought in 3 years!! But I was never good enough for him... He always wanted me to change..
Why did he downgrade? Why is this person who I think has much less going for her than I do good enough?
Most Helpful Guy
Maybe she's very passive and does what she's told. There are more to it than the basics. She may look like garbage and be trash but maybe they just have more in common, plus all realtionships are amazing in the first year.
Why do you need validation? Just because you were together doesn't mean you were right for each other. Having a good job a car and house and all that stuff on paper only matters in dating profiles. What kind of person are you outside of your accomplishments?
Whatever he was trying to change about you is probably what this other girl has.0
Most Helpful Girl
Because just because you see her as a downgrade doesn't mean she is. She could have a good heart and a wonderful personality... and clearly you're the bitter, shallow, jealous type - which isn't sexy no matter how hot or successful you are.
I'm sure all in all you're a good person, but this question is unbecoming of you.0