Do guys care if you never had a boyfriend before?

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Hey guys, I have a question. Does it matter to a guy that a girl has never been in a relationship before prior to him? I’m 26 years old and never had a boyfriend before! I’ve dated guys in the past but it barely past a month until they lose interest. All they were looking for was to sleep with me and didn’t care about me at all. Now this guy came along and it’s been about two months now and he wanted me to be his girlfriend. He called me special and I give him goosebumps whenever he’s around me. But In the back of mind, I keep thinking if he will soon think I’m odd for never having a boyfriend before at my age. On top of that, no guy has ever met my parents before so I’m wondering if he feels some type of way that he may end up being the first guy I’m dating who may meet them in the future if he sticks around.
I don’t want my lack of relationship experience to be a turn off to him and turn him away soon.

Thank you!

jamesmark1903 · Accepted Answer

I never had a girlfriend. I’m 23. I get rejected by girls all the time. I have never even been on a date. I’m looking for girls like you. It doesn’t matter to me whether or not you’ve had a boyfriend or slept with anyone. However, girls do make a bigger deal out of this things. Whenever girls ask me about my relationship experience, I tell them that I have never had a girlfriend. Boom. I instantly lose my friendship with girls and most of them won’t even say yes for a decent hangout.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

doesn't bother me at all, but I will admit, i'm more shocked to hear of a girl being single this long compared to a guy because girls don't have to be the initiators

I_Do_Mind · Accepted Answer

I as single and waiting, but for me the right guy hasn't come along yet. I'm sure he feels special because you held out and decided to be with him. He will not mind it at all if you show him to your parents and he is the first (and could be the last). He will be flattered and will take the moment seriously. Just enjoy the relationship, let go of the doubts because he cares about you. Being your first is a plus and something he will treasure.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Awww for some reason, your question/story is so sweet to me. Before meeting my boyfriend, I'd never been in a proper relationship either and I had had my first kiss (a peck) only a few months before that. He didn't really seem to care. I think he was excited to be my "first" everything (except for kiss) and enjoyed "showing" me things.

cherryphi82 · Accepted Answer

That is so sweet. You should be in for success because you are a serious young lady.

Logorithim · Answer

I'd be a bit surprised, but I would not care (nor would I have cared when I was in my 20s or 30s).

pasoccer · Answer

If he's a good guy, he will understand this about you and support you through it. (as best he can)
It's not weird. I've found more and more; that's how our society works now. (I think it's solely the internet and infinite possibilities that's doing that)
Once you're ready (which it sounds like you are), everything will work out.

GreenGold1992 · Answer

No I wouldn't care, I'd be honored to be a girl's first boyfriend.  And I don't date anyone for sex, but only to pursue a relationship with (sex is just a bonus, if it happens).

swdtime · Answer

How old is he. And goosebumps are sign of caring and loving

Vinayak009 · Answer

I am 28 and never been in a relationship. You are golden. Also I would love to have a girl who shares most of her first moments with me.

ravedave · Answer

I wouldn't care at all honestly. At the end end of the day all that matters is I'm interested and happy lol

OmgItsJoe123 · Answer

Having no previous boyfriend gives me a stronger motive to talk to the girl. Thing is, they're hard to find.

DIAMOND911 · Answer

It doent matter to me. But some people do ask him you might have gotten lucky

chris_987 · Answer

It actually better but know guys really like a girls that's still talks about her ex

sabiel · Answer

He probably happy as hell you haven't had a boyfriend before lmao go for it dead ass you have nothing to lose

FactsNotFeelings · Answer

That's a good thing! A woman who takes relationship seriously and is dating with a purpose and not for the hookup is a very sexy and endearing thing.

rahul_24 · Answer

I think you should sit down and talk to him, as you did here. If you are serious about this, then pursue it

Surely · Answer

Good news is, you shouldn't have any STD's. Probably not abused in a prior relationship. So, no turn off to me.. and willing to teach..

claudmar13 · Answer

... You can try to relax... He is just doing his job to meet a girl and a special one as you said, and in the worst case scenario, the sex or love making is fun and enjoyable...

boywithbigd · Answer

No we dont care about that we sometimes love that even more

Anonymous · Answer

He likes you for you and good luck. Also don't worry too much about the past.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

No doesn't matter to me that a girls never been in a relationship. I wasn't in one to I turned age 28 and she was my very first girlfriend.

Russwill · Answer

No it should not be a problem! I personally would think very highly of you for that!

cofffeeteet · Answer

Honestly he probably like it more that he's breaking new ground. Otherwise he'll totally be fine with it.

Thehman · Answer

It doesn’t matter to me I would feel honored to be the first boyfriend

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