Hi all! So two months ago, I met a guy who was/is seriously so perfect. After years of dating since starting medical school, this is the first time I can say I met someone who checks off all my boxes and showed consistency. He is perfect. However, i just recently found out that i will have to move across the country for four years of residency.
A situtation that neither of us planned for or expected. He is currently a very successful doctor at the hospital he works at and even recently got promoted to an administrative role. Im 26 and he's 32. We are both in the place where we would like to settle down. I reached out to him recently to talk about what he thought about things moving forward. He similarly feels like i am perfect and would want a relationship but he just doesn't think that long distance is feasible based off of his past long distance relationship experience.
I told him i understood. I have two more months left in the city and we both agreed to continue hanging out until I leave. I like this guy so much that I’d be willing to at least give things a shot. I would want him to move to my new city after maybe a year but he seems hesitant about distance in general. Should I let it go?
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How do you expect to have a family when both of you are Doctors? Your relationship is doomed to fail.
Why should he leave his succesful job for you? If you both like eachother than marry.
The whole point is that I’m leaving for residency in 2 months. I don’t want him to leave his job but tbh he’s a doctor and can find an equally great job easily in the state that I’m moving to. He’s currently working in the middle of nowhere
Ohk if you both are serious than do marriage... because you know once you both are label than you both find ways. Till than i doubt he will take risk of leaving job. Just a thought.