Do you think girls find attractive guys, funny or funny guys, attractive?

[Anonymous]

So is it that when a girl is attracted to a guy everything he says is funny, or is it that the guy suddenly becomes attractive because he is funny? I ask, because it seems like no ugly guys with good senses of humor are fighting off horses of hot girls trying to be with them. I could be wrong though, and all the ugly funny guys are just hiding their hot girlfriends and wives from the world.

[Anonymous]

looks comes first, everything else comes second

most unattractive comedians had to be funny with men first before becoming funny with women

Matt Rife started his comedy career speaking to women first but he would've been fine speaking to men first. even his "offensive" remarks didn't invoke much backlash except by feminazis simply because Matt Rife is objectively attractive

if Bill Burr started his comedy career speaking only to women, he'd be cancelled already but since he started with men, he's now a famous comedian but nowhere as attractive as Matt Rife

so next time when a girl says personality is more important, remind them that they'd never wanna know an ugly guy's personality to begin with

[Asker]

They'd never wanna know an ugly guy's personality to begin with, is a pretty honest and insightful line bro

[Opinion Owner]

then they'll gaslight you into believing your personality is the problem even though personalities can easily be changed and faked. heck they do all the time

superficial traits like looks, money and status are much harder to change hence why women filter men out this way first

[RavVid]

Every thing an attractive person does is attractive.

[Asker]

Exactly 💯

[SuckOnThisOpinion]

I've suddenly found guys attractive I haven't at first (so, not based on their looks) after knowing them for a while. One's character is made up of so many factors, humor being only one of them, so there are several things that can come together to change your view of someone. And at least in my experience, that will indeed change whether I find someone attractive and/or how attractive I find them.

However, looks open the door for more opportunities of people getting to know you to a degree that your character can make you appear more attractive in the first place. It attract people if you're externally attractive, as it is the only kind of attractiveness that can be perceived immediately.

On the other hand, there were maaaanymanymany guys thus far which at first I found attractive, but after talking to them for a few minutes I've lost all interest because of their character traits. So it can go both ways.

Do trust that a girl will be interested in you for you one day, it will likely happen!! I recommend doing some sort of sport or hobby where you have regular contact with the same people. That's one good option for people to get to know you better.

[Crimsyjo]

Attraction is twofold. There is instant attraction. And attraction that grows. Most people nowadays are all about instant. Yes no. Left right. The guy may be funny. He may not be. Attraction is the first trait noticed.

But the attraction that grows? Usually with a person you go to work with or see at church or in some other consistent way. Attraction can grow with liking a person's personality and traits. And being funny is one trait that makes you likable and noticeable. Laughing is a positive "reward" for the brain so being around someone triggering positives is going to start being associated with being good. And that's attractive.

BUT not all funny people become romantically attractive.

[Screenwriter]

Funny is just about always attractive: A man with wit and humor is a golden gift.

And sometimes a man who has been shortchanged in one area, makes up for it by being a hoot. Witness Chris Rock and Kevin Hart. These are two oddball-looking dudes. One tall and skinny with spider-fingers, the other a high-energy Corgi! But man, can they toss out comic barbs!

Comedy, also, can defuse anger. Get a guy ( and his girl) out of tense situation. That counts big-time for attractiveness.

I say if a man can't make you laugh, he's not worth your time or energy.

On the other hand, an attractive guy is only funny if he's a funny guy.

There are as many dull attractive guys as there are dull average and dull unattractive guys. Though, there is the argument that pretty guys get away with attracting more women simply BECAUSE of their looks.

However, if there's no content within that pretty package, what's the point of bothering with it?

[Finchie40]

Most girls’ like a funny outgoing guy mainly because she likes the fact that he can be laid back and down to earth and doesn’t take everything so seriously , I have hooked up with girls’ that loved my humor and personality, so yes humor can definitely get you girls’ if she feels she can be relaxed and safe with you

[Asker]

Yeah but you aren't ugly. Do you think girls would appreciate your humor if you looked like shit? Meaning, first they were attracted to you, then they found you funny. Obviously that's an important trait, but if they didn't find you attractive they might not have found you funny.

You ever notice how much girls giggle at every stupid thing an attractive guy says. And show no reaction to the funny shit an ugly guy says?

[Finchie40]

Well thanks for the compliment man but I see what you are saying , the thing is every single one of us has our own preferences of what we like and don’t like , whether you are attractive or not to someone , just because the other guy lands the girl over you , doesn’t mean you are ugly , you might be ugly to that one particular girl, but it doesn’t mean you are ugly to every girl around you. Some girls’ don’t find that so called attractive guy that attractive and she thinks he is a fucking asshole , Some girls’ prefer a guy that has a great personality and is outgoing and laid back that is confident about himself over a guy that lifts weights and exercises daily that thinks his shit doesn’t stink . So if a guy considers himself ugly? , his chances of landing any girl is going to be a lot harder for him to do because he lacks confidence in himself , You know how many banging beautiful girls’ I’ve seen that are with guys’ that aren’t so good looking , making me think how the fuck did he land her? It’s because she sees something in him that we don’t see , he probably treats her like Gold and respects her and doesn’t lack confidence in himself so who am I to judge what she likes? The same shit happens to girls’ when she is attracted to a guy and finds out he is involved with that girl over there? Thinking what the fuck does he see in her? , he can do so much better than that ugly ass girl. So for anyone to land anyone , they have to learn to accept themselves for who they are , you don’t have to be the best looking guy to land a girl , Not every person on this planet is worried about appearance , people that worry about appearance are usually people that are more than likely insecure about themselves people that can’t express themselves they hold back their feelings and emotions about themselves because they lack confidence in themselves, they are looking for attention , basically look at me look at me ,, thinking they are hot shit when really they are hot shit

[Finchie40]

Aren’t hot shit , I know a lot of beautiful girls’ that can’t stand muscle head guys’ that think he is a loser because he is trying to show off and act like he is better than everyone around him , she might think he looks good but his personality is garbage to her , I never considered myself a very good looking guy , I don’t think I am ugly but I know I am not the best looking guy , when I learned to accept myself for who I am and I learned to treat people the same way I like to be treated and stopped lacking confidence in my self , I was getting girls left and right because I was just being myself , Most girls’ love confidence and a guy that has a good heart that likes to laugh and have a good time that doesn’t worry about what other people think about him , he is who is his , you either take it or leave it. You aren’t going to land every girl but you will see a difference when you accept yourself for who you are , you don’t have to show off to no , just be you , break through that lack of confidence in yourself and i guarantee you will get girls’ Girls’ can see right threw guys’ that lack confidence in themselves. Same way us guys’ can see right through a girl that does the same.

[Asker]

Thanks for the detailed reply bro. Pretty insightful. Plus it gave me ideas for another question.

[Finchie40]

No problem man , best of luck

[marshmallowcream]

A lot of guys become more attractive because they’re funny , you might just see them as regular at first but if you spend a lot of time together it’s easy to start seeing them as more attractive.


Attractive guys are not seen as funny just because they’re attractive. Women may just laugh at their jokes because they’re hot , even though they may not even find them funny.

[Tantrumania]

A guy should be decently looking for me to be interested in him. By that I mean: healthy & clean. I am not looking for a Calvin Klein model. So, some physical attraction signalising to me that you are healthy and take care of yourself is a MUST.

If on top of that if you have a good sense of humour... Well, it is getting more interesting. But it doesn't mean I will find you attractive.

If with time I notice that we really vibe, if I feel safe around you, etc., then there is a high probability I will like you as a guy.

[IslaTheWitch]

I find smart guys attractive, and being funny is actually connected to being smart... unfortunately, most guys who don't have the best appearance are so insecure that they cannot show how smart they are...

[Zackareen]

I'm married 28 gym bunny and my husband is a 10 in looks but he doesn't do humour. My boss is 57 fat and is as funny as hell, do I find him attractive? no but I have let him get his way with me on a few occasions. Basically if an old fat man can make you laugh he has a chance of getting into your knickers.

[Asker]

I think you bang your boss because he's your boss, not because he made you laugh. And you probably found him funny because he's in a position of power. Like how everyone laughs at the bosses terrible jokes.

[Insecure2]

Personally, I find funny guys attractive. There are plenty of guys WHO are attractive out there, but only some are equipped with a sense of humour and if IT is an example of an intelligent sense of humour than he is even more attractive.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t care how good somebody looks or how much money they make, if they do not make me happy, I will not seek their company unless I have an obligation cause they are my boss or my family member etc…

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Attractive guys are funny. Tbh I can't think of one attractive guy that isn't funny.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZkOg06JTGRI

[PrettyCrumblBb]

I noticed if I don't find a guy attractive, every joke he makes is annoying.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Some guys are really funny though... maybe we just the same sense of humor?

[AviatorTom]

Being funny and being attractive are two unrelated things. One does not lead to the other. Remember your high school math? These are disjointed sets, Venn diagrams that don't intersect.

[Anonymous]

Attractive guys funny.

Everytime this type of question is asked I'll always say the same thing. Chris Farley was one of the funniest guys on the planet and couldn't get a woman to save his life (pun not intended).

[Anonymous]

Every girl that was super into me and respected me thought I was hilarious. Every girl that didn't, also didn't. Make of that what you will.

[ProbablyClueless]

It's definitely more that they find funny guys attractive. If you've ever seen women laughing at a guy because he's hot, it's not like they stick around very long.

[Nikki1989]

Being funny kills anything within the realms of looks.

[Asker]

In a bad way or good way?

[LiamJHayden]

If he's funny it might get him dates he might not otherwise get, but if he is repulsive she is still unlikely to date the funny guy, and if he is super hot and that is what she wants his not being funny won't hurt him much.

[Starrrboy]

Being funny automatically makes you more appealing regardless of your looks.. and of course good looking + funny is better than average + funny lol..

[paledreams]

Lol 🤣😆 attractive first they'd say ♀️ women would.

[MoonFace2]

A bit of both.

[linka_pat307]

BOTH WAYS , I GUESS

[RageBabe]

I find charismatic guys very attractive.

[Anonymous]

I'm a funny guy 🤡 but women mostly wants assholes

[Crimsyjo]

A lot of guys want assholes too 😂😂😂

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

@Crimsyjo
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[Crimsyjo]

@Maybe_Maybe_not 😂😂 just being honest lol

[justagirl9905]

Both?