Search Results: if you have made a right choice

First let me clarify, If he abused you, hit you, was an alcoholic or drug addict or someone who is lazy, not mabitions and doest wanna build a future then its obvious you made the right choice by ending it.

With that being said, according to statistics and real life as well, women are usually the ones ending the relationship, and i can't ignore the fact that some men who are dumped turn out to be actually pretty decent looks and personality wise and (later on) financially as well... and it makes me wonder if the woman made the right decision and if she ever regretted it ( i am sure she thought she had a good reason at the time ) .

This question applies only to those who actually believe they made a mistake by ending it, so if you are happy with your decision then this question does not apply to you.

Growing up I was always awkward, still am. I notice everything, ask off the wall questions, did drama and football in school, lack confidence in my looks and so on. Anyways, I had always been on the outside of society. I never really fit in anywhere. Too smart, too jock, too random, don't drink, it's always something.

So a long time ago I decided to basically give society the bird. I stopped caring what people thought about me. Stopped caring about what people thought of my style. I felt like if people were going to judge me anyways then fuck it. I'll just do what I want to do and to hell with them.

Since then I've become cynical, cold and largely uncaring. Don't get me wrong. I still very much care about my family and the couple friends I have. I mean in general. I still laugh and joke and try to make my few friends laugh (and am largely successful at it). I'm not depressed but every now and then I wonder if I made the right choice to pull away from society. I'd love to hear your thoughts.