Search Results: choosing a type

I would like to share what my boyfriend thinks about the dynamics in finding the right person in a relationship. He claims I'm one of the few loyal, stable, sweet girls. He thinks it's a lot harder for many men to find my types.

When we had this discussion, he points out that it's easier for us to find a good man because we're the one choosing him in the end (we have the last say in whether he becomes our boyfriend or not); the same way a candidate undergoes an interview for a job position and gets chosen after a lengthy process. Basically while he's doing the introduction, selling himself out there, paying for the date, etc all we do is select. If we select a loser, know what he's like and still stay with him instead of firing him just like they do on jobs then we got no one to blame but ourselves.

Guys on the other hand, have to do go through so much just to get the right introduction, have good looks or otherwise he can be confused as a creep, they're still meeting a stranger, have to deal with many rejections, being friendzoned while those very same girls would rather continue being with a cheating or abusive boyfriend (he called them the stupid girls) etc. What do you think? Is there some truth to what he's saying?

Here are a few types of therapy...

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy
Adlerian Therapy
Animal-Assisted Therapy
Applied Behavior Analysis
Art Therapy
Attachment-Based Therapy
Bibliotherapy
Biofeedback
Brain Stimulation Therapy
Coaching
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy
Cognitive Processing Therapy
Cognitive Stimulation Therapy
Compassion-Focused Therapy
Culturally Sensitive Therapy
Dialectical Behavior Therapy
Eclectic Therapy
Emotionally Focused Therapy
Existential Therapy
Experiential Therapy
Exposure and Response Prevention
Expressive Arts Therapy
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy
Family Systems Therapy
Feminist Therapy
Forensic Therapy
Gestalt Therapy
Human Givens Therapy
Humanistic Therapy
Hypnotherapy
Imago Relationship Therapy
Integrative Therapy
Internal Family Systems Therapy
Interpersonal Psychotherapy
Jungian Therapy
Marriage and Family Therapy
Mentalization-Based Therapy
Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy
Motivational Interviewing
Multicultural Therapy
Music Therapy
Narrative Therapy
Neuro-Linguistic Programming Therapy
Neurofeedback
Parent-Child Interaction Therapy (PCIT)
Person-Centered Therapy
Play Therapy
Positive Psychology
Prolonged Exposure Therapy
Psychoanalytic Therapy
Psychodynamic Therapy
Psychological Testing and Evaluation
Rational Emotive Behavior Therapy
Reality Therapy
Relational Therapy
Sandplay Therapy
Sex Therapy
Social Recovery Therapy
Solution-Focused Brief Therapy
Somatic Therapy
Strength-Based Therapy
Structural Family Therapy
The Gottman Method
Therapeutic Intervention
Transpersonal Therapy
Trauma-Focused Cognitive Behavior Therapy

Have you had any? ... please share your experiences and/or choose a survey choice, don't be shy.