Guys, why does it seem like many girls now complain that every guy they dated cheated on them, but won't stop to think maybe it's their own fault?

[Anonymous]

• seems like many girls need to do some self reflection. about the guys they choose to date and/or fool around with.
• If they keep picking guys that only want them for their body. no wonder their going to bail on her once they bed her a few times or gets tired of her drama.
• good chance those guys have multiple girls lined up as backup options. or he can get a new girl within 24 hours on average.
• if they want a decent guy who will treat them well. maybe they shouldn't rush into a relationship and/or rush to fool around with him. until they understand better what type of guy he is.
• since a decent guy who is legit into her for more then her body. is more likely to wait a while longer before bedding her.
• seems like it's their own fault for engaging in hookup culture. instead of trying to find someone to bond to long term.

[Finchie40]

Because most people in general can’t admit that they are wrong especially when someone is selfish and only really cares about themselves , Most girls today are very selfish and the only reason I say this is because I have witnessed so many relationships crumble because the girl was selfish , I was married to one that cheated on me I slept with some that I didn’t know were married until after the fact because she was selfish person. Girls are also more wrapped up in social media and romance movies these days , they can have a caring loving husband that works his ass off to provide and she won’t care , she will cheat on him just because she meets a guy that has a higher status of her husband or boyfriend. Most girls today aren’t content , they constantly compare their lives and think grass is greener , if a Male cheats 90 percent of the time is because his wife or girlfriend with holds sex from him and barely shows affection and constantly nagging at him , most girls don’t think men have feelings they think we don’t want to be wanted that we should be their human punching bags don’t get me wrong yes their are men that are pieces of shit that cheat for whatever reasons but most men in general don’t cheat if they have a beautiful loving caring girl that makes him feel wanted. I was friends with a married couple that the husband was a good guy he worked his ass off provided for her always had a happy personality and then he got laid off from his job and immediately went to another job making less money but he was still working , that wasn’t good enough for her so she ended up screwing another guy. Just because in her eyes this guy was a man because of his status and job , I completely lost all respect for her and excluded her from my life because of how much of a piece of shit she is , just goes to show most girls only care what’s inside your wallet , if you can find a girl that stays by your side no matter what life throws your way keep her at all cost but nowadays finding that is like hitting the lottery because most of them want your wallet

[Bananaman177]

I think it says more about the kind of guys they're chasing.

Most women ONLY have eyes for guys who are obvious playboys.

I mean I'm not even gay and I can tell when a guy is nothing but a man-slut, but those guys are NEVER single, lol. Those guys always have a new girlfriend on their arm, they never run out of idiot women.

[Browneye57]

Nailed it.
You need to understand that women simply do not do introspection. The do not accept any responsibility for their place in life. It is always the fault of some uncontrollable thing or person.
You can even watch for the word tracks...
"I had no choice."
I was out of options.
He made me [insert emotion].
I didn't know what else to do.

No, this is the realm of women. Watch what they do, not what they say. It is ALWAYS all about the FEELZ.

[boggboss]

Meh could be said with any situation that goes south for aomeone yet its not there fault they could have been more safe but the fault always lies with the person who did it dont mean a person didn't make dumb choices but again they are not to blame

[Anonymous]

The women always have to be able to flaunt their 'victim' status if the relationship goes bad, it can never be their fault that you've gone looking for comfort elsewhere, though you can almost guarantee that she’s been on the c*ck carousel so often she has a season ticket.

[perfectchaos]

It's both. Both parties are at fault. First yes the women are picking the bad guys out there. 2nd is that doesn't give an excuse for anyone to cheat. You shouldn't do it.

[I-have-a-biscuit]

I'm pretty sure it's not their fault. If I accidentally entered a relationship with a woman I don't like I'd break up before seeing other women. I have higher standards than cheating

[Snakeyes7]

It doesn’t matter whether she drove him to cheat or not, the the boyfriend cheated and it doesn’t excuse either behavior. He should have said it’s over and moved on. Same goes if the genders are reversed.

[Dinosaursandanime65]

If it is their fault, the cheating is still, always will be, and always was unnecessary. If they're agitated at their current state, they should just work something out. Not emotionally break each other s hearts. Physically on the other hand... mmmm

[Dougzy]

Totally there with you fella dating used to be about looking for the one now, it`s like last man standing how much can you take with a low-value prize at the end of it all,

[bamesjond0069]

Im not a cheater but if a girl engaged in hookups i just tell her this is not exclusive... and of course im the bad guy. But duh. A man like me won't settle for some slut. Thats retarded.

[captain_voidwalker]

Lol there are 3 things that are garented in life. 1 is taxes 2 is death and 3 is women will never accept responsibility for thier actions

[Zen10]

Thought the same thing about women and failed relationships...

[InferiorElegy]

Because it's always the guys fault. He cheats, his fault. She cheats, his fault.

[yyyuuuiii]

Because most women don't like taking accountability