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28F, only thing I know for certain is I have anxiety & my self esteem could be better. But, nothing too terrible that makes me incapable of finding a LTR. I’ve been on and off dating apps for years, I don’t get how they don’t work for me as it’s known women have it easier & people tell me I’m attractive (not just family/friends). I have to use the apps bc I never get approached in person, I get the matches but in the end it just doesn’t work out. The last time I saw someone I was 23 & that only lasted for a few months. It felt like settling & I’ve become even pickier now. I don’t really have that much of a sex drive but that isn’t something a guy can sense right off the bat so I don’t think that’s it. It’s like I wonder if I’m ready to date but ffs I’m almost 30 that’s odd if I’m not. I met up with someone for the first time in almost 2 years last week & I didn’t even stay for the whole time, I left after maybe 15 min bc I wasn’t feeling it (even though chatting went well on the app), I had a long day, wanted to leave before the drinks arrived since I didn’t want him to get charged & most of all I was worried he was gay (by his voice). I usually video chat before but moving fwd that’s non-negotiable. Oddly enough I still don’t think it’s my fault for being single this long, yes I’ve tried counseling/medication & it was a bust. Can an almost 30 yr old woman date while being anxious, insecure, reserved & close to being maybe on the asexual spectrum?

Me and some Friends were drinking many embarrassing photos were taken and he seemed to be smiling but still, i don't know how to approach this? He messaged me after to check I was alright and said to not avoid him

They approach US for dating or sex, they ask US to marry them. GUYS are the one paying random girls online just for being attractive. Guys have even given random women money in person JUST for being pretty to them. You don’t even HAVE to be pretty for a guy to approach you, they approach EVERYONE. So why is the blatant lie that women are supposed to be or ARE the submissive ones still going? Are approval is needed for EVERYTHING they want to do with us.