Why would he give me obvious signs that he's interested but when I made a first move he ignored me?

[Reem12345reem]

He really made it obvious , but I thought that he was shy to approach me , so I found his IG and texted him , but he didn't reply even though he posted 2 hours after I texted him , he ghosted me , so I blocked him

and after that he asked a pen from ME although he could have asked others but I gave him one bc I was in hurry ( and that' so rude , who ghosts someone and then asks them for something like nothing happened , i blocked him for a reason yet he still had the audacity to talk to me ) , and he was so intentional with every move he made (im not being delusional or overthinking im sure of it)

and he told his friend about it (I don't know if he told his other friends too but i know for sure he told someone )

Updates

8 mo

For the ones who are saying that he just acted nice and I thought he's interested, or I'm overthinking this than that's NOT MY CASE , I just didn't want to add more details bc it'll be long to read , so just answer based on what I said

[DaveJord]

So, in all honestly, you ghosted him. You blocked him over his social media presence before he replied to you. Which is fine you have every right to do that, but you technically ghosted him before he ghosted you. If you did not give at least 24 hours to respond, then you ghosted him.

Now I do not disagree with you, if someone is seriously interested, they reply within the first hour, or at least within the first 4 hours... after that it gets shaky. But nobody technically ghosted until you start blocking people.

But I do a lot of online dating, and it's so exhausting... sometimes you see that message come in and you just have to ask yourself do you really want to do this today.

[Reem12345reem]

he posted after I texted him , and he also replied to my friend in the same hour i texted him , he didn't text back for 2 to 3 days so i blocked , it was obvious he was playing games

[DaveJord]

I would agree.. just technically speaking you ghosted him. If you block him you ghosted. I am not saying you did anyth8ng wrong here. I mean if someone's not interested in you, then just say that. It's a lot easier then just getting nothing back.

But you didn't have to block him. But obviously he hurt your feelings. I am sorry to hear that.

[Anonymous]

Because you read him wrong like most women read men wrong. He wasn’t interested. Women these days have this inflated ego that all men like them just because we look at them. Because they’re all perfect 10s in their eyes so every man must want them. What exactly did he do to give you the indication that he was clearly interested in you?

[Reem12345reem]

did u read my update?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes I did. Again doesn’t sound like he’s interested.

[SexyBrunetteNY]

Ego. Men do this to get flattered and I'm sure loads of girls reject him so maybe that's why, or maybe he has someone else and had to draw a line? I don't ever chase men, so please don't do this again. Men only value what THEY earn.

[provokeesmokee]

You are reading into these "obvious signs" way too much.

Nothing here suggests romantic interest. You really gotta chill. He is not interested and if you're getting upset then just don't interact with him.

[SexyBrunetteNY]

I tend to trust female instincts, and guys DO confusing things just like women do sometimes, lol.

[Unknown52749]

Yeah I don't know how it is with other people but I don't get message notifications from Instagram. I usually end up seeing that someone messaged me in my email. And I don't check my email that often either. It could be possible that he just hasn't seen your message. I would say the way to figure this out and move on is to ask him in person. That way he'd have to give you a yes or a no, then you wouldn't have to wonder anymore.

[Unknown52749]

And on another note, guys can be clueless when it comes to these types of situations. He could be just doing his day to day stuff and not even notice that you like him.

[Reem12345reem]

no my best friend actually texted him and he replied back to her

[Unknown52749]

Oof ok well that changes things. Either he's being like what everyone else is saying which I'm feeling like is very possible. Or maybe he actually does like you and is very nervous to talk to you, I know I've been really nervous to talk to a girl I liked lol. If he does like you but is really nervous to talk to you so he doesn't say anything. He'll most likely never ask you out first, not without major assistance from you (lights on a runway for airplanes that are landing for example). If it's the second option then you could consider doing what I suggested earlier and just straight up ask him in person.

[InnocentB1tch]

Maybe he just enjoys flirting with people to see if they will fall for it? When he saw your text he proved himself that he got you interested and decided to back off as it’s just a game for him and he doesn’t want anything serious

[Anonymous]

Unblock him and Make this your IG story 💀

[Opinion Owner]

"So just answer based on what I said"
Damn chill... you're scaring people here lol 💀

[Reem12345reem]

Glad I scared u 👽

[Opinion Owner]

You can't scare me cause I was born scared 💀

[Reem12345reem]

Bc u were in an abortion or?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah they aborted me and I was raised in hell 💀
Humans on earth are funny ngl.

[thegreenyogi]

Sometimes guys play games and sometimes they want to get to know you and then they change their mind suddenly. It really depends on the person you're dealing with.

[Shy_Steve]

Usually because he's a Player, I think your wasting your time with him.

A Guy who actually cared for you wouldn't do that.

[Wise4myage]

He divert immature to me, so don’t waste any more time on him.

[Wise4myage]

** definitely.

[Tessafowler03]

Playing hard to get