Girls, why would a girl who blocked me, behaved immaturely and acted irrational during a break up, contact me a year later?

[Anonymous]

There's a girl who went to my university, I never met her, I don't know her, but she added me on Instagram one day, talking to her I realized we have a lot in common. Ethnicity, political views, religion, nationality, humour type are all the same, everything was clicking quickly. She even suggested to meet up and go to art museums, art exhibits and other things she enjoys, just her and I. She would send me memes, gifs, funny videos, talk to me on the phone for hours. This is an obvious sign of liking a guy. She isn't some floozy online posting provocative pictures of herself, she's a private person. We meet up on dates, she says im making a great impression on her and all of a sudden things go south. We had a disagreement one day, she took offence and blocked me. I didn't realize what I said offended her but I tried to apologize. She was cursing and trying to insult me but I wasn't taking the bait to insult her back. I just said, whatever you're dealing with that's bothering you if you need space then ill give it to you, she declined that as well. We stop talking, months go by and then she reaches out to me, why?

[Bethany22]

She's probably feeling guilty about the way she acted, and is wondering if you've moved on or if she has a chance still with you. If you get back with her though, I'm sure the same drama will arise further down the road, so it's better to just not try going out with her again. The trust between you has been broken, so why go back to a failed relationship?

[Asker]

i believe in second chances and although i do agree with you, my mom said the same thing if a girl acts that way now, why consider her to be someone you want to marry one day? But I don't want to paint someone a certain way. She could have been dealing with a lot of stuff and acted poorly in that moment.