So I (23F) have been seeing this guy (24M) for two months and till a while ago it has been great. We never talked much online, we would maybe exchange 6-7 messages per day but they would be relatively long. We have also had the discussion about what we are looking for (we met through tinder), and we both agreed that we are looking for something more serious. He also brought up tinder once and asked if I would like to focus on him when it comes to dating, and that he wasn´t talking to any girls (his tinder profile hasn´t been updated since, not even the location)
Fast forward to now, he barely texts me and sometimes he will take more than 24 hours to even do so. He has told me before that he has 2 important exams so he is going to be quite busy but we can meet when we both have a little free time. The issue is he never asks to meet when we are talking online even though he always finds time if I ask him. But also i dont want to bug him to much with asking since we barely talk online, our messages would consist mostly of me asking him to go out.
I dont really know if he is just really stressed right now but i feel like he has lost interest and for some reason is still keeping me around while giving any effort. I am not seeing anyone else and I am looking for a partner, so I would like to see other people and end it with him if he is really just not interested anymore. But I also like this guy a lot so if there is a chance I am overreacting I would like to know so I wouldn't ruin what we have.
I was thinking about approaching him and telling him how I feel but I am afraid of coming off too strong, and I would need to meet him irl for that which seems impossible now since he barely texts me. Any advice on what I should do? Or has he really just lost interest and I should just go on with my life?
Has he lost interested or am I overreacting and he is just busy?
