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I feel some women value attraction way too much and this can lead to problems.( Yeah men have this too but I feel it's more prominent in women)

Successful relationships are more than just both partners sharing attraction.

Somethings you can't see or judge in a few days.

Successful relationships are built on trust, respect and interest as well as attraction.

You may have attraction but if they/you are:

Not respectful, arguments, abuse and harassment could be a problem
Untrustworthy, you can't depend on them
Uninterested, cheating and short relationships are likely.

Finding a partner who is attractive is good but attraction shouldn't be on the top of your list.

One last thing, I know I'll probably get a comment along the lines of "you should teach people not to have these qualities instead of teaching us to avoid them"

That would be best, but you can't teach trust and interest to the masses. There will always be opportunists in both genders waiting to backstab someone when it's advantageous to them.