Girl's Behavior 
Guy's Behavior 
Flirting 
Dating 
Relationships 
Fashion & Beauty 
Health & Fitness 
Marriage & Weddings 
Shopping & Gifts 
Technology & Internet 
Break Up & Divorce 
Education & Career 
Entertainment & Arts 
Family & Friends 
Food & Beverage 
Hobbies & Leisure 
Other 
Religion & Spirituality 
Society & Politics 
Sports 
Travel 
Trending & News 
Love is what transmutes us. When we stand in love for ourselves. We are not dependent on others for love or happiness.
We are humans, adults even, that carry our own role and responsibility for ourselves... Only I can choose to be happy, I can choose to unconditionally love me.
we can truly be together when we are aligned in divine love.
L O V E
together we share:
> compassion
> patience
> understanding
> strength
> loyalty
> honesty
> power coupling
alone we are:
> unconditional love
> self-expressive through finding our own strengths
> stand in our own truth
> we remain loyal to ourselves
> we find patience for ourselves
> we take the time to understand ourselves
> we choose to look ourselves in the mirror and be honest with ourselves.
> we stand in our own power- don't allow fear to control our actions.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
A message from my heart & for those who might need it:
We are people, not perfect and not always pretty.
We share everything through empathy via self expression.
Self expression is expressed after you find strength after facing your pain.
Your challenges don't define you. Your daily choices define you.
No one can hurt you without your consent.
The things you fear and hate, are only given power... when you give power by allowing yourself to accept those as beliefs about yourself, by allowing yourself to listen and think about it.
You define you.
We humble ourselves when we fail, we all fail. We all have to fail in order to learn.
We fail because we are human and It's okay to fail.
Love is sharing what i've learned with all of you who had the curiosity to seek. Only you can find what you want, if you seek it. We all are blind to some things in our life, but there is divine timing where lessons are to be learned.
I repeat, pain creates strength within- which creates beauty through self-expression, through our need to share our experiences together- to expand on empathy. We are supposed to connect with others.... It's hard to let go of fears around love... But our challenges are ways to expand our souls. To build our foundation.
Those who are hurt, hurt others. Find the courage to share compassion. Forgive yourself, you do your best to make it through what you've been. Where you are now is where you are supposed to be, trust yourself and trust your lessons.
At the end of the day, what you choose to believe is completely up to you. Try to let go of feeling threatened by others and what they say or do.. It's them, not you. Only you can prioritize yourself, your actions- you only have time for yourself, in this world. Let go of what doesn't serve you. Let go of those who don't serve you. Find balance in dancing with your bad and good. You cannot experience good without the bad. You can always be surrounded by darkness, but you can also build your own light from within. Good luck.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
NOTE: I do hope that someone found use of at least part of this, it's just my truth through my experiences. Not all of it will resonate. It's just been on my heart and I just needed to express it with whomever! <3
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
2Opinion
There is no such thing as unconditional love you are deluding yourself
There is for me <3 sorry you feel that way
So would you be ok with someone cheating on you?
Life is about experiences. You live and you learn. If I unconditionally loved myself, I would practice expressing my boundaries, to focus on me and what is good for me. If my partner made the choice to cheat on me, i'd feel more compelled to understand why. If they don't love me, i'd let them go. If they don't love themselves, I'll support them but practice boundaries with them because I'd like to protect my physical self from others germs that he might have invited in via cheating.
the only point i can agree with you on is unconditionally loving yourself. but everything else you mentioned are conditions you have set up in a relationship if it is to keep going
I set up healthy boundaries for myself because I love myself enough to take care of myself. Remaining abstinent in a relationship is a reasonable precaution to take after someone cheats. Also, to take that time to focus on other areas of the relationship and where we need to heal to build back trust. I still unconditionally love that person.
Just so we are clear, you can abstain from sex and still unconditionally love someone
trust is another condition you are set up for a relationship. all romantic relationship revolve around conditions of trust and fidelity aka not cheating, lying and etc. the only people capable of unconditional love is yourself and maybe your parents and siblings.
I don't think it's healthy to put expectations or "conditions" on any relationship. No relationship is perfect, no one is free of making mistakes. Personally, I don't go into a relationship demanding or limiting anything- I don't feel I need to. I go into a relationship thinking of how awesome we are when we are together and how I want to experience that for as long as the universe allows. I wouldn't consider myself insecure or controlling.
yes but there are unspoken rules everyone expects from everyone else because that is the norm and desirable expectations. some people will be vocal about it and others just expect you not to do it and they don't need to elaborate why because it is self explanatory
Sure, the average person does have unspoken rules. BUT since we are talking about unconditional love (the difference between average romances) is that there are no expectations or limits- there is no fear, there is only understanding and growing together. <3
so you would be ok with them cheating on you? or would you be ok with them abusing you? or would you still love them after let's say they killed somebody?
I believe in forgiveness. I believe in unconditional love for myself where I prioritize my own health because I am the only one responsible for my own health and my own happiness.
that i can agree with you on :)
We didn't have to agree lol <3
but I feel glad that you wanted to <3
are you telling me you want to debate more? 😂😂😂
No, i'm content lol. I just want to clarify that I don't want anyone to feel like I am forcing my beliefs on anyone x)
you didn't force any beliefs on me beautiful i was just agreeing thats important to love yourself unconditionally and sometimes it good to forgive and give someone a 2nd chance
Awe, I appreciate your sweetness <3 2nd chances can be of vital importance lolol
Nice Take. Something to think about post-divorce.