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I was dating a guy for 4 months. he broke up with me, and we continued to see eachother as friends because we had been before we dated. He made it clear he didn't want to date me at the moment, and made it seem like a "never say never" thing. and at first I was ok with that. for two months I tried to be. but then it got to be too much and so I asked if we could take a break from seeing eachother, to see if being single was what he really wanted. two weeks after that, he slept with his ex from 3 years back. He had dated someone else after her and before me so I was shocked when we got back together and she calls and tells me.

she told me she asked him about me before they had sex and he said we were on "a break," and said not to tell me. Why would he tell her not to tell me if we were both single and he didn't do anything wrong? he says he thought we were done when he slept with her and didn't want to hurt me if we went back to being friends.. That makes me think his ex rejected him because maybe he wanted her back but she didn't so by telling her not to tell me about their hookup at least he could get me back? We got back together a week after that.

Okay so my boyfriend (Danny) is worried that I still have feelings for my ex (Trent) , especially after I showed him this screenshot. I showed him the screenshot because we are in a long distance relationship and I like keeping him updated as to everything that's happening in my life really.

So my Trent and I are still friends after we broke up, I know most if not all people may find that weird and unnatural but it works for us. He wasn't good as a boyfriend but he's good as a friend and I don't have any romantic feelings for him whatsoever, and I keep telling my boyfriend that over and over.

But Danny says that I seemed so excited and interested in what Trent was saying that it worries him that I still like him.

In the screenshot, Trent was saying that he finally got a job offer, he has been job hunting since December, and that the job is in PE, where me and my friends live.

So I was really happy for him because he possibly got a new job, and I wanted to find out more about what the job would be like etc. I was also happy that he would be in PE again because my friends and I have missed him, we always hung out together and watched movies and played Magic the Gathering (card game like Yu-Gi-Oh) and lanned games etc. Really nerdy stuff.

So I told my Danny that I understand his point of view and I understand that it may look like I still have feelings for my Trent , but that it isn't the case at all. I only love Danny, and Trent is just a friend to me, that's all he is.

I also apologized to Danny for making him feel that way because I know it must have hurt him.. But he says it's still in the back of his mind and he still keeps wondering if I don't have feelings for Trent.

So, do you think he is right in wondering that? Or do you think he is being a little paranoid, maybe understandably so, but still a little paranoid nonetheless?