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I've thought about this issue for a substantial amount of time. and I've been on both sides. At this moment I am genuinely not sure which side I come down on. But, I can tell you that, for me, I have narrowed down the one true factor that that the entire question hinges on. Self defense.

I’ve been with my girlfriend for 2 years and our plan is to get married by December.
My girlfriend is dead set against us having kids. She doesn’t want kids but wants me to be a second dad to her friend’s kids. She’s even leaving her will to her friend’s kids.

I’ve never fancied the idea of kids. I don’t even like kids, accept recently I’ve been thinking it would be cool to see a mini me. What’s even worse is she’s pregnant right now and has an abortion appointment booked.

I’m ok with her not wanting kids, her body her choice. But I don’t wanna be responsible for someone else’s kids either. I never wanted to date a woman with kids, but I kinda think this is worse than dating a single mom.

So please tell me. Am I selfish? Or is she?

There is only one or the other. You can’t be for both abortion and the border and vote democrat, for example. One wants the border wide open and for illegals to become citizens and vote and the other wants it closed and illegals deported.