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I’ll try keep it as short as I can

I’ve known a guy 3 weeks. We have seen each other quite a lot in that time. I’ve met his friend and he met my best friend as we organised to meet up before a show we were both going to.
He asked me to sleep over once and I said I wanted to take things slow and he said he’s happy to wait. He’s 31 and moving back in with his dad for a bit to keep him company as he was sick. He said a few times he was pretty stressed about the move.

I slept over the other night and we did everything except sex and I said let’s just do it and he said no he has a rule he won’t have sex with a girl the first night she sleeps over due to past experiences where he wasn’t keen and still had sex then felt bad. In the morning we mucked around again and went to work.

Later that day I sent a snap of a dress I found and he replied saying ummm wow! The next day he snapped me saying moving day
Laterthat evening I messaged asking how it was and he replied in the morning and said stressful then good morning lovely how was yesterday? We haven’t spoken since and it’s been 2 days since that message so I sent one today saying “we should do something fun this week!” And he hasn’t replied yet.

I can’t tell if he’s busy or lost interest in me. I want honest opinions here.. did I come on too strong? Or am I just over thinking the shit out of it all?
Should I just give him space?

I'm seeing a guy for almost a month so far. Weve been on 3 dates. When we meet we have good conversations/we laugh a lot. For the 3rd date he invited me out for a drink and then to his home for a movie. I told him I don't feel comfortable going to the house at this phase yet. He said ok how about coffee still? So we went to get coffee and had a nice time. At the end of the date we hugged. I wanted to kiss him but I didn't. (Anxiety and scared to open up)
We texted once we got home and this morning I asked if he was shy. He then asked me what did I mean shy?
I told him I'm shy and I didn't know if he wanted a kiss yesterday or not. He replied and said yes. So I just sent a reply saying ok with a smiley. He never replied after that. I don't know if he's looking for quick sex and just rolling with the punches or he actually likes me. I don't plan on having sex for a while. I've had very bad experiences where I had sex too early and the guys leave the next day. I want to take it slow and actually like the person before getting physical. Does it seem like he wants to just get physical?