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I realize this is common for INFJ's. we need that alone time to recharge our social batteries. i can be social easily but too much can be a drain on my energy. same thing in high sensory environments such as a party or a concert or something. That day i need to recharges is almost vital for me to stay sane and not feel too stressed throughout the week. Those are mondays for me. I played a game, chilled on this site, read a little bit from a book, went walking. lots of nice stuff. now today im recharged! :D

Wbu guys?

As an infj im kinda realizing that im not too keen on small talk. Been Like this practically my whole life. I don’t really mind it in the beginning when talking with people but eventually i would want to delve a bit deeper into topics.

wbu?

I know some women will not want to reply to this, but I know me and a lot of men will honestly want to know the answer to this.
​Is this statement correct: 'Women love to feel the strength of a man she feels safe around and fully trusts.'
​After reflecting on things, I realized I am honestly a bit confused about how much assertiveness women actually prefer behind closed doors. I know everyone is different, but when it comes to that connection, do women generally lean towards a high-intensity, take-charge energy or slow, gentle romance?
​From my experience in one-off encounters, women prefer the first option. However, when in a relationship, this isn't really the case, and slow and passionate is preferred (according to my last relationship anyway).
​In my head, a person will go purely for excitement and what feels best in a one-off encounter, as there are no repercussions and you most likely won't see that person again. Therefore, you go purely for the most thrilling dynamic for you. Is there a shame/shyness that comes later in relationships? Do women actually prefer that bolder, more intense energy?
​Is this correct? And if so, why?
​I've added a poll below, but if you're comfortable please add a comment.

Hello,

I (30 yo) am meeting one older women (roughly 50 yo) when I walk with dogs.
She is single. I am curious if she is flirting with me or she is just friendly.

Some info: when we first met. She “stopped me” and started to talk to me. Shaked my hand and told me her name.
Always when we meet she stop or going towards me and speak at least little bit with me.
For example she was behind me few metres (I didn't know) and whistled and called to my dog.
Or once she asked me if my dog sleep with me in bed. I said yes and she told me that if she feel cold during winter she takes her dog to bed to warm her up.

Do you think this is just normal “friendship” or can she can be interested in something sexual or romantical?

Thank you for your time guys!