Why do women have drastically different standards for men?

My flatmate
she wants someone who is tall, good looking, is interesting, and wants to have all the fun part of a relationship without sex and intimate moments, doesn't ever want to get married but wants to keep changing partners, but doesn't want to be called a gold digger.
I said it's hard to pull something off like that.
And it's kinda bad for doing it for life cause cheating Is a serious crime from her perspective. So if the guy has needs then
He is a criminal?
And the guy she likes will change a lot of things.
That relationship will be full of fun and love.
And a bit of intimacy I didn't hear anything about sex.
It's so bizarre for me!
Love used to be a noble thing right?
For me love is simple, full of sacrifices, full of opportunities, full of support, intimacy, respect, happiness and strength.
Why do women have drastically different standards for men?
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