Why do women hold some men to high standards but not others?

[Chthou95]

[slatyb]

You mean men like you? Maybe you don't understand what is important to them. If you think it's height, wealth, muscles, a fancy car, you're wrong. I divorced and started dating again when I was a few years older than you. I'm 5-8, didn't have a lot of money, have never been to a gym, and women loved me. Why? Because I paid attention. I remembered what they said to me and didn't act like the only thing I cared about was getting them in bed. I never asked for anything. When they wanted to be kissed, I kissed them. When they wanted sex, I was ready. Usually took three dates. By asking for nothing I got everything.

[Chthou95]

Can a general question be asked that doesn't have anything to do with person asking?

[slatyb]

Yes, but not a question based on a false premise. Here's a question like yours: Why can't Chthou get laid? Is it his appearance or his approach?

[Chthou95]

Why is slatyb such a simp? Is it because he doesn't want to get on women's bad side?

[slatyb]

Says the man who isn't getting any.

[Chthou95]

It just shows that your metric of success or with is dependent on whether you're getting laid or not. That makes you a simp

[Chthou95]

Worth*

[Anonymous]

Maybe it's all looks and attraction or vibes

Women are as fickle creatures as men.

I mean - we're all descended from animals - 🙃🥲😄🤭

[Agape93]

Because most men won't even try to reach those standards, so we hold those closest to us to those standards.

[Chthou95]

Are most men on your radar?

[Agape93]

Is it your business?

[Chthou95]

It's a yes or no question

[Agape93]

And I'm waiting for you to answer.

[Chthou95]

Yes because it's my post and you decided to leave a reply

[Agape93]

Yes and I said why that is. You wanting to expand on it, isn't my concern and the answer isn't your business

[Chthou95]

Answer the question or stop responding. Simple as that

[Agape93]

I did answer, so maybe stop pushing for responses and accept the answer you were given to start with.

[Chthou95]

No you didn't answer the question. Saying it's none of ny business isn't directly banswering the original question i asked. It's just you dodging the question

[Agape93]

You asked why women hold some men and not others to high standards. I answered that question. You keep pushing for information not already asked for that isn't your business. So you can stop pushing for answers, which will get me to stop talking, or you can keep pushing and ill keep replying. Those are the choices you get. Pick.

[Chthou95]

I asked if most men are on your radar because you said that most men don't even try to reach those standards. You responded with none of your business which is just you dodging that question by refusing to give an actual answer which is either yes or no.

[Agape93]

You're not entitled to the answer. I answered the title question, which is the only question you're entitled to. You fail to under and accept that.

[Agape93]

Understand *

[Chthou95]

"You're not entitled to an answer" blah blah blah just answer the question either yes or no

[jahaims]

It depends on how they are seeking validation.