Search Results: problems in marriage

THE FIRST THING:
I don't understand why some or more women date men who do not treat them as an equal, though I've only seen conservative or conservative-leaning women date such men. What bothers me about it is that these women acknowledge that they do not like to be treated as less than an equal, and demand equal treatment from their male friends and society in general. Then they turn around and date men who treat them as less than equal, which makes me trust them less, because if someone is willing to throw away their sense of morality, then I wonder if they even have a sense of morality.

This does not include women who were manipulated, gaslighted, abused, and even beaten to be forced to stay in a relationship or marriage. This also does not include women with low self-esteem.

THE SECOND THING:
Men who would happily have sex with slutty women, and then turn around and shame those women for being slutty. I do not think being a slut is a bad thing, and the word 'slut' should not be considered a bad word.

Such men go on and on about how most women are slutty and that they are not worthy of respect. Usually such men identify as conservative, but I've seen quite a lot of other men engage in such behavior as well.

I do not understand why men in general and society has such a problem with female sexual expression, but not much with male sexual expression.

What do you think and what are two things that bother you quite a lot?