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I felt that it’s nobody business to tell me how I should dress or groom myself to look a certain way. If they don’t like or hate it that’s fine I’m not someone who gets offended when people don’t like it. But it’s none of their business to judge or tell me what I should do with my body. Don’t like it? Cool. Judging and telling ME what I should DO to my BODY? That’s crossing the line. Think about it, how would you feel if someone judges you for your fashion sense and other things? Have you ever put yourselves in someone else’s shoes? If you do, good. If you don’t that’s not their problem it’s YOUR PROBLEM! The reason why I’m more open to talking about this and saying that judging was wrong was because my favourite influencer is not afraid to express herself when she gets judged. She was slut shamed by many haters and she inspired me to not live to please people but myself even though I didn’t wear skimpy clothing like she does but I had respect for her.

When I saw some men who had very long beards, I admitted I didn’t like it. But I didn’t judge and I had this thinking that they deserved to have a choice we had no rights to change their mindsets. And my favourite influencer said not judging makes you a better person which is true. Stop wasting your time on others whom you don’t know that well but focus on making yourselves a better person. If you chose to leave hate comments here or start an argument you are considered a hater and as she said ‘haters don’t really matter and they deserved to fuck off’. I will not start an argument because it’s worthless to change people’s minds I can just simply delete them as that’s the easiest way out. She has changed me in a good way and I’m proud of myself. I demanded a judgmental free society for both men and women but it’s not happening! I’m not blind I know what I’m doing don’t assume I’m just a stupid fan.

Lets suppose that was the only way to attract people: to be bad (steal, say bad words, get into fights, act ghetto, etc)

Or you can stay true to yourself and be on your own. Would you join in the crowd and become someone you're not? Personally I would rather be alone than change my whole personality. If I need to be bad to win someone's approval, that's lame.