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First, very few men care about living life as an influencer and it's hard for men living like that.
Most women nowadays only care about living the Kardashian dream and becoming famous on social media at any cost. Popular magazines promoted this lifestyle and indoctrinated it in people's minds for decades now.
It's easier for women to become an influencer. Women care more about their own looks than men do. Women can get a lot of free stuff even if they are not earning it.
Businesses and guys hand out anything at female influencers. I have seen women causing drama in restaurants if they are not giving away stuff for free for promoting them on insta (which they even didn't ask for). Generally, businesses don't want bad names for them so the girls can get away with that.
Women are even going to extreme lengths for living a royale lifestyle. Search at the story of "Anna Sorkin" or watch the new Netflix show, "Inventing Anna".
I have even seen with regular women, friends. They are not working don't have any degrees and yet spend thousands on clothes, super expensive hotels, or restaurants almost every day. It's either their daddy's money or boyfriends. You will say that men are getting sex, yes true but the cost of getting it is increasing with time.
Even if some women are making their own money they are still expending high amounts of it in personal expenses and barely any savings. Plus altering their bodies to look like the influencers.

Thereby fashion and glamour industries are making big money and those industries actually don't make any significant contribution to human society.
Recently I have seen a woman raising money for the treatment of her father on Facebook. She cants afford the hospital bills and neither can her father. But all her previous Facebook posts were much glamourous, expensive holidays, five-star hotels.

Me and my girlfriend have been official since November of 2021. We started talking May 30th, 2021. I already knew her before because we used to be co workers and i have had her on social media for years but she always had a boyfriend so never really talked to her like that, I always had small crush on her.

About a month that passes by and at this point I probably hung out with her about 8-10 times. She invites me over to her new place for a little get together with friends to celebrate her new spot, everything seems normal but then another guy walks in the house and her mood sorta switches on the spot. At this point she dosen't pay much attention to me and just sorta haves me there looking stupid. I start to get jealous because this guy was making small comments to her that make it seem like he was trying to flirt with her. I start to get upset and I tell her im leaving. I was expecting her to ask me to stay over like she did the night before but she didn't. The whole night after I left i couldn't stop thinking that she's probably going to sleep with that guy but I just let it go.

Fast forward about 4 months and things are getting more serious. I decide to ask her about that night and she denies that she did anything it for a few days then one day she said "Okay, we just kissed but that was it" She started begging me so i giver her another chance. I don't believe her but i just let it go.

Another 2 moths or so pass by and we are now official. It is around November now and I ask her again, i make it seem like someone told me and I ask her again? She starts crying and she says YES. My heart literally sank. Ever since then we have fought dozens of times, we are still together but I just can't forget that night. That is the root of all the problems we now have, it has gotten mentally draining , We have gotten cops called on us because of how bad it gets when we argue. I know we weren't official but the way she did it just bothers me.