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for some odd reason women in Latin America think that life is a beauty pageant. all women will go out of their way just to look good and "fuckable" and attract men or just dominating the dating pool in general. as a result of this plastic surgeries and other risky cosmetic procedures have now become really common in my native country Dominican Republic along with other Latin American countries like Colombia, Venezuela, Brazil, etc.

I'll be honest, this is pretty toxic for the fact that these cosmetic procedure are not just cheating but are also harmful in the long run. is also toxic because this makes our women very superficial in many ways. but looking at the bright side at least our women know that big boobs and big booties are what turn men on and they seem not to mind fulfilling that.

women in America in the other hand are the polar opposite. the majority of them are obese and even worst they never want to fix themselves in any way whether its for their own good health or for other more superficial reasons. they instead demand that men must accept for who they are and again instead of fixing themselves they attack the men as if we are not allow to have our preferences. they result to calling us "misogynist pigs" and many other negative terms that helps them cope with their misery.

till then I was wondering, which one you think its more toxic?

Are women into men what are very fit or just not out of shape?

Seen as women are much more independent most of them think ‘why do I need a man?’ Because that’s all men were to women, a means to an end to provide a lifestyle 💳

In dating I feel i attract women because I’m tall, top high earning career, handsome. All superficial, status things. Not for me.

I genuinely feel women don’t actually like men. Just like you if you’re perfect. The reason I hate dating is because it’s mostly fake BS, women are far far shallower than men. They mostly all want the same superficial things.

You also don’t get women that were there for you when you had nothing or at your lows. I dunno.

Lost hair to a telogen alopecia at 18. Shave what’s left. Still have eyebrows and most body hair. I’m a decent looking guy, even told I’m handsome by many. But I’m 28 now and I’ve just had no luck dating. Never even been kissed or on a date. I’m very social, involved in many groups and activities, went through 4 years of college and always had big social circles. So so many times women have shared how they can’t believe I’m single etc but yet, sometimes even those same women, turn me down. There’s been a small few who were into me but honestly I just wasn’t attracted to them. That physical attraction has to be there as well as the emotional one. I got one life and I am not settling on what I want just due to a genetic condition. But I don’t blame the women who aren’t interested either, looks do matter, just sad to think hair really is such a big determining factor for men’s looks and there’s nothing I can do but wear a wig (which I actually started doing-a full custom one, it’s 2024 and makes me happy).

But yeah, I’ve probably asked out 40 odd women in the decade I’ve shaved my head, all no’s. About 12 made it clear it was the baldness. (I always journal so I have reread this many times and remember the numbers, probably not healthy) and I’m sure others were the same. Just sad, really wanted to be married to a young woman I found beautiful and who I loved dearly. Didn’t care about much else. Not interested in waiting until I’m older, nor in dating women older than me. I’m 27.

Honestly friends I think I may clock out here soon. Love each other out there and please be kind. We all need to learn to take rejection yes but please be kind giving it. This world is mean enough.