Why do older men feel like winners when much younger gold diggers want them?

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I wouldn’t want anyone who isn’t attracted to me or came to me because of my money. It’s so idiotic and makes you feel worthless. I reject all such guys who come to me because of my money so why do these men feel so happy?
Man’s worth is not mainly determined by his “resources”. It’s about your ability to protect, love and also sexually satisfy a woman. I highly doubt a rich old man can do that but most women are shamelessly chasing that. Even on Instagram I see them creating trends that are just disgusting. The society is ruined by these resource providers and their gold digging wives. Relationships can be compared to prostitution. So only the women who favour money and not what they’re attracted to ultimately win in life. Younger guys are always procrastinating when it comes to marriage and they even reject women their age when they get older. I’m done.

RingOfFire · Accepted Answer

I don't know how many times I've said this but however many it is still valid. Nature has different roles for men and women and they each have different characteristics designed to attract the opposite sex. These things are designed so that when a man and a woman decide to have a family, between them they have all the attributes necessary to form that family and make it successful.

It comes from millions of years of evolution. Survival of the species is the most important natural achievement for any species. Reproduction and survival of the young until they are old enough to reproduce themselves. That is nature's number one priority for any species including humans. Without it the species becomes extinct. And these traits help ensure that doesn't happen.

Women are attracted to men who can provide and protect and men are attracted to women who are sexual and able and eager to bear children. This is the way nature designed men and women. It's not a societal thing it's a natural thing. So that's why women chase men who are good providers and men chase women who are sexual and fertile.

Most women are interested in men who are older than they are. Not necessarily much older but usually they want them to be at least a little older. That's not a coincidence. Typically older men have learned to be better providers and if you are a good provider you are also a good protector because providing things is part of the protection process. It also provides the ability to afford protection.

Most men are attracted to women who are younger than they are. Again not necessarily a lot younger but younger. That comes from the natural instinct that tells them that younger women are more fertile.

This explains why in the vast majority of couples the man is older than the woman. It's not just a coincidence, it's nature.

Does that mean every individual has a strong adherence to these instincts? Of course not. There are exceptions to everything and there are always individuals who deviate from and don't contribute to the natural plan. But instinct is instinct and the vast majority of the population is guided by it.

I'm not surprised that so many younger people don't understand this basic fact about nature. They grew up in an environment that pumped Insanity into their heads about gender and gender roles. They grew up being told that men and women are the same. No matter how many times that is repeated, nature says differently. And nature always wins.

Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

Most of these men are nerdy workaholics who spent the last half a century buried in their work with little female attention

So when they are old and rich they’re also lonely and jaded.

They know the women just want money that’s far too obvious.
But they let it happen because it’s a semblance of affection that they haven’t had in forever.

It’s easy to judge when we’re young and have social lives
But when old and out of options we might not look a gift horse in the mouth

Karmi · Accepted Answer

But how do you determine if they are with them for the money. I’ve found my type is shifting, I’ve started to find myself attracted to much older men and I’m not sure why but I know their money doesn’t have much to do with it. Although, when I say much older I mean between late 20s and 60s. How old are we talking? And maybe it’s an ego thing? They enjoy having a younger girl on their arm because A) they find her attractive and B) it shows to other people what they have.

Valdemort · Accepted Answer

I can't speak for men, but I know I feel flattered when someone 15+ my age would be attracted to me lmfao. Except I don't do the digging, that shovel's too heavy lol

incorrected · Answer

Instagram is not the place to view the whole of reality, it's a skewed and twisted place. Men are walking away from ever getting married in droves though because it's all risk and no rights/reward since no-fault divorce exists now. If you're a virgin, there are a lot of men would would deeply value you being their first, including many virgin men your age. Choose wisely, and ditch Instagram...

blueonblack22 · Answer

These guys have deep depression issues. They all know damn well the younger woman has no real attraction to them. But they are at a point in their life they are just “the hell with it”. They try to fool themselves into believing the young woman likes them when we both don’t know they don’t.

It’s actually more to a fantasy addiction issues vs an actually sexual addiction issue. They rather be used vs. being perpetually lonely.

Roldrake · Answer

I really don't care if she likes me for my 'success' as long as she gives me what I need, we both hit orgasm and have a couple of laughs along the way, isn't that fair enough? Life is SHORT honey let's just have some fun and not take this all so seriously.

Unit1 · Answer

Why do older men feel like winners when much younger gold diggers want them?

You hate gold diggers and gold digging relationships too? You caught me off guard with this one.

But shouldn't that matter since its your favorite foes, "the racist white guys" are getting them?

Girls back in my younger years were not interested in me. They loved Instagram more. Nothing lost, nothing gained.

NicholasRedone · Answer

Only the gold digger ladies who are 18 plus, I would only date women aged 20 plus to 3  I'm 30 years old

Billlewis · Answer

Because we so love it when you take advantage of us without letting us have sex with you.

FreyaRed · Answer

Prehistoric instincts. They know they are not more than living wallets but they don't care.

NathanDavis · Answer

none of my relationships were based on money

Blueeyes81 · Answer

They found a good looking cum receptacle. That's all it is. These men only care about sex and money provides them with as many receptacle as their heart desires.

genericname85 · Answer

cause if they had no money, younger gold diggers wouldn't want them, so they did achieve something, which is appropriate to feel proud about.

Quigly · Answer

Every woman is a gold digger. Women don't Marry for Love, they Marry for Money. Marriage is tied at the hip with Real Estate, Banking and finance and it's just as corrupt.

Dongie · Answer

You're forgetting what the old timer is getting out of the deal. The women are just getting cold cash.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Because they get the women they want and all it costs them is some of the money that they won't live long enough to spend anyway.

zombiewoof · Answer

You have to pay for what you get no matter what age you are, this is very obvious and understood by both parties when sugerdaddies get with sugar babies

Tomisworthless · Answer

I wish i could attract gold diggers, i would be of some use to others besides being a doormat

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

If that what works for them, so be it. Why don’t you just worry about your own shit?

Jennz6 · Answer

Gold digger like me?

UnwantedScorpio · Answer

I’m not a. Prositute

blackeagle007 · Answer

I feel great by NOT being a sugar daddy

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I agree but they're seeing what they want to see

Aurav22 · Answer

Baby I love you

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