Why are so many men worried about gold diggers if most of those same men don’t have any gold to give?

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V_Injector · Accepted Answer

Men should be worried no matter what their financial situation is. SHE'S TRYING TO USE HIM FOR CASH, just like any street thug trying to rob you would. Imagine being a man in today's day and age... single mothers, sluts, and all of them will whisper sweet nothings in your year to take what you worked 9 to 5 for.

It ain't much... he rides the bus and a bicycle is his main form of transportation. The fact that these chicks are out there even trying to take that says more about the women than these poor men that have to have her ass chasing him down when he's just trying to buy a 40oz and get back to his video games.

No gold to give... nugga have a gold tooth she's gonna try to take that. He hasn't washed his ass in months and has dandruff snowing out of his hair... she'll suck his dick and then try to accuse him of rape.

I'll put it like this, a man that isn't worried about gold diggers are victims just waiting to become the next victim.

Why are so many men worried about gold diggers if most of those same men don’t have any gold to give?

Just look at your question and ask yourself why you're worried about men being worried about whamen gold diggers. Why are you worried about that? Not beneficial to you. Out there looking for a victim aren't you? Not going so well?

You're an anon, but I have this deep sinking feeling you're that single Mom that's been out there asking dudes why they're incels if they don't want a single mom. You're obviously out there looking for a pay day from some sucker... but they're incels, losers, can't get laid, worried about gold diggers, but then your ass is out here looking for them and trying to drag them in line.

How about you go breast feed that kid and stop trying to shame men into getting with the likes of you? Have you thought about that? Apply for welfare already and quit trying to shame guys that are better off not fucking with you in all reality? Let them live their life and if that's video games and bong hits all day... that's okay. Why is it better to get with a single mother and get stripped of every last chance they had in life in the process... would you want that for your son?

MisterWack · Accepted Answer

I think it is about principle.
As human beings we don’t want to be used, exploited, or taken for a fool in our lifetimes because we feel dried out, running around circles, and foolish morons… That is a human emotion that is shared by everyone, not just men because I’ve seen this way of reasoning in women too.

The fact is, you don’t have to be making a lot of money to be taken advantage of for cash. Once the cash runs out, they’ll go searching for another person to take advantage of until that runs out too. It is regardless of man or woman, it is a situation that you can easily find yourself in if you are blinded & not awake.

Jammaa · Accepted Answer

Gold diggers don't care if he has money or not meaning gold diggers don't mind taking from the middle class and the poor. If anything she feels it's easier to take from the ones in a lower social standing and that's why men need to defend themselves. I have 3 brothers who aren't incredibly wealthy but all can make a decent living for themselves. However, I wouldn't want any gold digger near them. Bottom line is that selfish greedy people are this way with everyone so of course men would want to avoid them at all costs.

Nsonanim · Accepted Answer

Shallow men who value women based on our looks are obsessed with getting the “best looking” women into bed to pump and dump them. They assume all such women will be easier to pump and dump via tricking and manipulation like dangling a carrot in front of a bunny, if these guys are rich or have money to give them in some way.

these men are shallow as a puddle and assume women are too. They wish they had those resources to dangle in front of beautiful women

these men are predators.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

You must be one of the "we don't need men"... we see you...(ﾟーﾟ*)

Drewtate · Answer

They aren't. Gold diggers target wealthy old men. What currently happens to average men is that they get married and have kids spending years paying for a wedding, a mortgage and so on. Then a few years into the marraige the rife decides she not happy and monkey branches to another guy and the husband is loses half or more of everything he worked for, is on the hook for decades of alimony and child support that he had to pay no matter what or it's jail, loses his home and doesn't see his kids anymore. That's worse than a gold digger.

Summeroflove · Answer

Because some of these women prey on men who are just making ends meet too, I would say men who have money need to be extremely cautious about flaunting it to potential partners.

Not all women are gold diggers plenty or women are looking for a genuine connection. The problem is that men who are just looking to get laid aren’t going to find those women. Because for one thing women with values don’t want someone like that and the women who are sleeping around…. Aren’t gonna make good partners.

There are bad people in all walks of life who if they can find someone to take advantage of they will. People just need to be careful men and women when it comes to relationships, some people aren’t who they seem.

RavVid · Answer

Gold digger is not words I use but it is undoubted that girls expect resources from men. Even female friends do.

With one girlfriend I appreciated her initial even handedness. It was you get that and I'll get this for the evening. Then it became you get that and that and I'll give you the money. She finished work much later so it was time efficient. Initially she did give the money for her side but that quickly evaporated. She gave me $5 one night then asked for it back in the morning.

It wasn't that I couldn't afford it - I could. But I didn't like being treated as a wallet. So I kept a spreadsheet for a while of what she owed me and presented her the bill. She was quite shocked as I intended her to be.

All very well for you to be dismissive of men who aren't earning well but they need a girl to not be exploitative more than most. Guys like myself who are earning well don't want to be a wallet.

Men hope to be loved for themselves not their pay packet.

BetaBucks · Answer

Like half the dudes that end up homelsss or committing suicide were just regular working clsss men who were dumb enough to marry or impregnate a crazy chick and ended up becoming literal slaves and couldn't maintain a basic quality of life. It's baffling that men still fall for this shit.

Guys, if you have any concerns you're messing with a gold digger, don't marry or impregnate her.

Unit1 · Answer

Gold diggers aren't always the ones, that use men for yacht rides at minimum. Gold digging can be as small as using men for free meals. Yuck!

buzzword · Answer

Obviously it is more dangerous for a broke guy to get involved with a gold digger than a rich guy. You can be broke and have great credit by being a decent person and making payments on time. A gold digger (con artist) could exploit your good name to leverage that credit to get material goods and leave you stuck in a debt quagmire from which you can never escape and spoil your reputation at the same time.

D_D_D · Answer

When someone doesn't have much to give in the first place it makes what he has much more valuable to him cuz it's all he has so.. don't take it literally cuz if a guy had 100$ in total and he lost it to some golddigger chick it's far worse to him than a rich guy who has plenty of 100's.

Texaskid1 · Answer

You don't have to be rich to go broke. I have a friend of mine that is a school teacher. He might bring in about $60,000 / year (US dollars). Yet a huge chunk of his check goes to child support. And she spends it on stuff that has nothing to do with the kids. And he has no legal recourse for this. If here were single he would be fine. But he got screwed over. I know other guys that spent 20 years paying alimony. Gold digging comes in may different forms.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

I'm older, richer and smarter now, and I have a vasectomy so girls getting my gold doesn't scare me. However my net worth would probably be double if I didn't date. Gold diggers or just normal dating, it's expensive. That being said, worth every penny for the fun experiences I've had with girlfriends, friends with benefits, or one night stands.

Guys without vasectomies are playing Russian roulette. Just giving her money is personal choice.

Unap0logetic_ · Answer

lol that’s something that I’ve seen a woman say.. she said the only men who cry or complain about gold diggers are the ones with no gold.. in my opinion they shouldn’t be dating if they don’t have the money to spend.. male or female, rule still applies.

genericname85 · Answer

because some women even take things you didn't have to give. like what percentages of divorces did women pay alimony for their ex men? what percentages of divorces did the man get to take of the womans money. that's what men are scared of. that's why les and less people are getting married in a society that has no economic gender inequality anymore.

Anonymous · Answer

Thats why. Theyre broke and theyre upset that they dont have enough money to attract the women they want.

Well off men NEVER complain about golddiggers. The biggest motivator for men wanting to make a lot of money is to attract women.

JSkye · Answer

Because when you have less, losing it is even more devastating? That'd be my guess anyways 🤷🏻‍♀️

Kaamraj · Answer

I dont see lots of women lining up to date homeless men or bankrupt men unless and until they are more than 6ft tall with a jacked body. The truth is that men still have to provide value in terms of resources.

Sunnysunny123 · Answer

Because that's what tik tok tells them to do, same as tik tok tells women it's cool to be a stay at home wife or whatever and not get a carreer or education in the middle of an era where more than half of marriages end up in a divorce.

mobiusforniner · Answer

Simple. Because they’re insecure. They use the gold digger stereotype to justify their singledom and turn tables on women being the “predator” vying for their small material kingdom. In my experience most decent women aren’t gold diggers.

Anonymous · Answer

It doesn't matter whether a man has a lot of money or not, just like it doesn't matter if a woman has any sexual appeal at all. It's about wanting to be loved for who we are.

I think you know that. Your question was just an immature dig at men.

Anonymous · Answer

Because most men are attracted to “HOT” women in their 20s.

And those women tend to mostly be golddiggers. 🤷🏻‍♀️ SIMPLE

Specially if an old creep way over 30 is attracted to her. 🤷🏻‍♀️ SIMPLE

Friendlybro79 · Answer

How much gold could a gold digger dig if a gold digger could dig gold? That's the real question.

teamvic · Answer

Even if you had one gold nugget, you still wouldn't want someone coming and stealing it  question, why ask such dumb questions and be anonymous 🤔 At least own up to it I say

Kiss_Me · Answer

Men want women who love then for who they are, not the assets they can provide. Women who judge a man's worth by his assets have volunteered to go Pro. There is a term for types of women.

HighlyQuestionable · Answer

Because most decent men don't want to be used, don't want to live in a world where using people as cash cows is seen as permissible. A better question might be "Why don't women ostracize gold diggers as morally reprehensible?

magiusX26 · Answer

in the same vein of logic your question was asked. if women are not wanting his money, then why do so many want to know a guy's finacual status before even going on a date?

Anonymous · Answer

I imagine it's for the reason we women are worried about guys using us for sex. We all want to be loved for who we are, not just for one thing we offer.

Anonymous · Answer

Because you are a prostitute at that point. You’re getting paid for a service. It’s immoral too. Greedy. Not to mention deceit sometimes. And it’s sex before marriage most of the time. Not to mention laziness.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Because they don't care if you can afford it or not. If they had money they wouldn't be worried about it

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Men with "gold" typically do not tell gold diggers they have it. Its better to seem poor, that way you eliminate gold diggers from the pool of women you are looking at.

blueonblack22 · Answer

Because maybe they have been mooched off on and swindled by women for lesser amounts but still swindled nonetheless.

uncleBobbyb77 · Answer

Simple, gold diggers are shallow and obviously any time or effort spent pursuing them will be a waste for both parties.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Neither men nor women need to be well-off in order to get taken advantage of by a "gold digger." One can have an average income, get sucked in, and end up broke with maxed out credit cards while the ex goes and finds another victim.

Billlewis · Answer

I'm only worried about them because I want to date/serve them.

sawno · Answer

You'd have to proof that correlation first, I don't think it holds up.

Juxtapose · Answer

You are naive if you think only rich men are taken for a ride and lose all of their money.

236color · Answer

There are plenty of examples of women leaving men without much, completely destitute.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Unless one day ya know you plan to have as such.

Anonymous · Answer

same reason ugly feminist women worry about abortion when nobody is stupid enough to impregnant them

Anonymous · Answer

They want a girl who likes *them* not cash. How is that a question unless you're a psychopath?

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

They mean women who are just there for the free meal or drink.

morganherrel · Answer

One guess: they protect their ego by worrying about a problem that they are not financially successful enough to have

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

They think they are going to be rich one day but the reality is the immense majority of men will never be rich.

In_Trance · Answer

You're not wrong

Titus_of_Ultramar · Answer

Because gold diggers will target poorer guys to try and take the little they have and than imminently dump them once the well is dry.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Same reason why many women are worried about players if most of those same women are too fat to have anybbody counts.

Tomisworthless · Answer

Women dont like men who flash $ theyll just use the guy 4 money while giving her affection to the alpha

noohair · Answer

That gold digging thing operates on all levels so it is always a problem. Eventually his money runs out and he is poor and the girl moves on.

A_Wild_Redhead · Answer

It's less about gold and more about being used. Don't think about it literally

Vegasrunner · Answer

Odd comment, how would you even know what they have to give?

msc545 · Answer

Because some day they might have some and would like to keep it.

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

It’s not about that, it’s the principle. Gold diggers are just disgusting humans obviously. What a stupid and pointless question

tushlady · Answer

It because girls of nowadays are very much interested in money not relationship

suryaa29 · Answer

The same reason why women don't want to be seen as a temperature

bluesparrow · Answer

they want gold

msss98 · Answer

Its a skewed view of society

Crazzyyworld · Answer

There are gold diggers at any level

Dongie · Answer

Perhaps they do, it's just not on display.

jahaims · Answer

Use deductive reasoning

Ladsin2 · Answer

Bitcoin diggers.

justabuddy · Answer

They don't have 'as much' to give.

Anonymous · Answer

I wonder the same thing. 😂

Why are so many men worried about gold diggers if most of those same men don’t have any gold to give?

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