Why do poor men hate gold diggers?

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I never got this. Like if you don't have any gold for her to dig she won't date you not pay attention to you so she has no affect on you life at all so why do you hate these women?m Is it because she won'z date you because you're broke? (P.S I'm not a gold digger)

VoiceOfReason · Accepted Answer

I don't dislike the woman as much as I dislike her behavior and her moral code. For me it doesn't matter if I was rich to the point where every time I sat on a toilet I would $hit $100 bills or so poor that if someone tried to rob me, they would feel sorry and spot me a $20, my belief will still be the same.

Personally, I believe that relationship should be based on mutual attraction, feelings, compassion for one another. It doesn't matter what the financial standing is as long as you both work well together with what you have. While money is important (to the degree it is needed to buy necessities and wants) it should never be a determining factor for whether or not you want to date them.

Date the man or woman because you have genuine interest in him as a person. If the relationship flourishes and it's real, if he happens to be rich, the gifts will come. Even though the price of a gift doesn't equate to the depth of love one may have for another still the main thing is it's the thought that counts.

Women AND men, who prey on people just because of their financial status, especially when they don't have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out just detest me because morally it's low. Wouldn't you prefer if someone fell in love for you as a person? How would you feel if the guy you were deeply in love with all of the sudden said bye when your well went dry?

Another note, it's not just the women that do this that I detest, it's the men who do it too.

firefop · Accepted Answer

They've removed his potential for breeding. Simple as that. It's the same reason guys who say "no fat chicks" get called A-Holes.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yeah, you basically answered your own question. A guy could be an overall great guy, but he isn't making good money, and so a woman ignores him just for that. Gold diggers just want to take all their money, and that's it. They don't care about the guy or the relationship. I make really good money, but I don't care if I date a guy who doesn't. As long as he doesn't borrow money from me. I've been screwed over before with someone borrowing my money, and not paying me back. However, I've dated great guys who didn't. The last guy I dated worked minimum wage and we were together a while, and I could have seen myself marrying him but he wanted kids and I didn't. So it was him who broke up with me.

katkaintkwit · Accepted Answer

No man really likes a gold digger. But the ones who have gold to dig don't mind. The ones who don't have gold are bitter because they think their personality should be worth dating more than money. But if you flip it. They wouldn't date a fat girl for her personality. So I don't know lol

AamuYami · Accepted Answer

Well, some of them are bitter and have to hate someone to account for their own insecurity and inconfidence. And it makes them look pathetic, in my opinion. I get it why men may dislike gold diggers, but hatred expressed publicly just shows how weak they are.

Anonymous · Answer

I am far from "Poor".  I am a trust fund baby that served 15 years in the military.  Why do I hate gold diggers?  They are just in it for the $$ and no other reason.  They are not "REAL" or "TRUE".   They do not contribute to the family or society and only care about themselves.  This is also true of so called "Trophy Wives".  I like real, not fake and phoney, no face lifts butt lifts or tummy tucks, hell no to the fake boobs that are more then obvious like a girl put two soccer (American) balls on their chest or 2 punch buggies from the 60s.

Konnour · Answer

Well, let me see...

Who would not hate being seen as a walking wallet - someone who's a subject to manipulation?

Everyone hates stealers and scammers - gold-diggers are the same thing - if I'd want to pay for sex I'd get a prostitute - but I don't want a prostitute who's pretending to be my girlfriend!

alexstorm · Answer

I hardly dislike a woman because she is out to get a rich guy.  I wish her well.  I would just imagine that such a relationship would not be very satisfying for the woman or the man.  That's just me.  Wealth makes day to day living much more convenient and entertaining to a point, but compared to real love for someone it's like finding a diamond when you are lost in the rainforest... certainly worth hanging onto, but it's not going to get you out.

G_GTom · Answer

I thought it would be the opposite? Gold diggers don't waste their time with poor men and almost all men don't want gold diggers. So, what do poor men have to worry about?

If you have money, then they come to you with their manipulative ways. Some are easy to spot, but some are REALLY good. Thank goodness for prenuptials.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think it's because the gold digger won't date him, he should be glad. Maybe because no one likes people who use others & can't go out & get their own money, whether male or female. When-ever I see someone getting used it bugs the crap out of me, & I'm not poor.

I guess it's just irritating to see a lazy POS leach off others. It's not hate, more like disgust.

gotc147 · Answer

It's men in general that hate gold diggers, not just poor men.

temptationfalls · Answer

Gold diggers still go after poor men too. They just suck them dry faster than a loaded guy.

Anonymous · Answer

people are jealous of those who are more successful. poor men hate gold diggers because they know they don't stand a chance. they are secretly envious because they know they can't get those girls.

diegoD · Answer

because they are fake bitches.   they are lazy.  I have the feeling you are one, too bad you have a cute face to be like them

Anonymous · Answer

cause they can't afford you

Anonymous · Answer

Because they can't afford them.

Meedo · Answer

why do you care ?

WickedEyedLeo · Answer

All men hate gold diggers. Lol

Anonymous · Answer

I think most men hate gold diggers.

Anonymous · Answer

i think everyone hates a gold digger

Anonymous · Answer

They are shallow

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