What do you think is the most difficult aspect of your relationship or of attracting your partner into your life?

[jennifer_bloom]

I met a married woman who told me she was obsessed with her career cause she thought if she lost her career, she would lose her romantic value to men. She said the stress got to her.

[ohsheeT]

If you're happy at your job and you can do it well and that means it works for you in a roundabout way and it makes you look good I want to make you look good you can take it easy a little bit and just take care of yourself project yourself and the romantic part will all just take care of yourself but if you beating yourself up every single day at work trying to prove yourself when it comes time to go dating you're too tired it's a balance point

[Yannae]

I think having the same end goals. That has to be the same. Kids, marriage, living together, whose name is kept, ...

[Valdemort]

Relationships require effort, communication, trust, negotiation, compensation, all kinds of things. It's a business, with feelings involved and you've made the conscious decision to do it together. You gotta keep investing or you'll end up bankrupt.

[Valdemort]

Ty for mho!

[incorrected]

The vast majority of men don't care about a woman's career AT ALL. Women care about men's future prospects, i. e. career/money. Men care about a woman's sexual past, i. e. they don't want a woman who's been "run through". Women who've been promiscuous usually don't make good wives, and they're always going to compare a guy to whoever the best she ever had was, whereas guys don't really compare in that way.

[AnonAndrew]

I agree with you in general, though personally I actually prefer girls who are "run through." In today's society, I think promiscuity is actually a sign of a healthy sexuality in a woman.

And sorry, but it's plain false that they don't make good wives. Promiscuous women make the best girlfriends and wives. :)

[Touchstone1987]

It's false. Men do not care about a woman's career unless they are lazy or mooches. A man covers his own. In fact most men don't want career women. They come with loads of difficulties and problems.