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I’m pretty dang blunt and sometimes come across as agressive. Sometimes it’s really just a misunderstanding, but sometimes it’s cause I get scared, cause I was bullied a lot, so when somebody starts being disrespectful or other negative things, I get a bit aggressive. Now it’s more under control, but I still do get a bit... Otherwise I’m totally nice and smart and all that, but I dunno if my bluntness and aggressiveness makes me unattractive.

I find it to be very flirty, especially if I took extra time with my makeup and outfit that day
When out with my guy buds who are pretty good looking guys, women yell out pretty racy remarks, "Ay papi!" or "He can have this all night!" the other women who hear ooing and giggling

I do feel there is a line though, cat calling very raunchy stuff like, "my dick is so hard babe," or "Id sit on his face," (commonly heard in my city lol,) is a bit too overboard. Touching any part of a person as well.
It seems everything men do is taken as being sexually aggressive when his intentions are just to express a strong romantic interest.
Personally, its a bit uptight to be offended by someone directly expressing how sexy or beautiful they see you as.

I have cat called at men, and have been cat called frequently commuting in our busy urban areas. Men, or gay women, will even sit next to you on the city train just to tell you how pretty you are and if youd be interested in going out sometime. Its flattering.

I do not see the point in making a man's advances at me more difficult by giving him attitude for complimenting my body. I do not understand how we are taught to be confident and beautiful, but when people compliment us its a bad thing?

So I find it flirty!